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writes:OkayI really like this guy in the year above, but I haven't spoken to him for ages and he hasn't spoken to meLast time we spoke (like 9 months ago), we talked easily (but then i wasnt sure if i liked him in that way)I don't know if he hasnt spoken to me because he just isn't interested in me any more, or because i haven't spoken to him and he thinks i am ignoring himThe reason i haven't spoken to him is that i am scared- is this normal?Also, guys- do you not speak to girls you previously did speak to because you just don't like them anymore, or is it because you think they don't like you?Should I speak to him, and what can I say to make it sound natural?thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (10 June 2009):
 I think you should speak to him, I mean, whats the worst that can happen!? I think its worth your best shot!!
He might not feel the same way - but he might still do. Nine months is a long time to go without speaking to someone.
But, if you guys start speaking again, those feelings can surely come back!
Just start a basic conversation, hey whats up? how are you? etc. You can tell him something funny that happened during your day, or something you saw.. hopefully, the conversation will take off from there!
Relax and breathe.. remember to be strong, and whatever happens, happens!
We are still young anyways!
Good luck
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): I think it's just because you're talking relationship gradually faded out, because your lives both got busier or whatever. I don't think that he likes you nine months on if he hasn't talked to you! However, try going up to him and saying hi at some point
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