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*hadowre
writes:Ok, i dont know whats wrong with me! I hate getting close to dudes, like being in a relationship. I cant stand the thought of having to be intimate with another person. Like ye sex looks good, but i can never imagine myself doing that kind of stuff you know!? Like even kissing is all ewww to me. I rather be reading an erotic novel. I dont know why i cant get over it! Its a bit ridiculous at this rate. I've been asked to meet loads of dudes and going to two grads with two different dudes but I just cant have a relationship! I've had past ones but they werent really intimate. I was all like dont touch what you dont have. I guess what Iam wondering is, is it a stage! Will I ever get over this fear of being loved and hurt!?
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reader, shadowre +, writes (2 August 2009):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks lads. But how are you even able to find that perfect some1? All of the nice dudes are with people already. There is this dude from a local band who is the lead singer, that i have recently taken interest in, but i heard alot od dudes in bands are users and treat girls like shit! Iam afraid to take a chance. And i respect your opinions. Ye do make alot of sense
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reader, Triskaedeka102  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 Yes, I agree with always.curious.ray., all you need is the right guy :]
I was very much like you, I barely can stand close to guys or even thinking of kissing somebody and having sex. I was even move steps back if somebody tried to even hug me!! Then I met somebody who's I'm comfortable with and then everything just flows. It'll come to you :] don't worry
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): hi
stop reading novels and all
be realistic
the more you read, the more you think
just enjoy your life
be practical
sex is a wonderful thing, enjoy it
also remember, if you become sexually active, you would no more require "mills and boon" and porn... best of luck
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reader, always.curious.ray.  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 of course you will. you just have to meet the right guy. that you trust completely. and you and just relax and be comfortable around. thats you. you just havent meet the right guy yet, but he is out there.
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