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Archived questions from: August, 2016 (see latest in Social Media category)

Social Media: Help and advice

Is this desperation? How can I break this obsessive cycle ? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3000 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - How can I overcome this desperation? I have been seeing a therapist after the last couple of years of dating (jerks) led me to this - long story short and since this is anonymous I can be honest. On the outside I'm a grown woman - I try to keep ...

Is Texting to guage interest a reliable strategy to determine how interested a guy is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - From my experience, I know that texting all the time in the beginning doesn't necessarily lead to long lasting, loving relationship. I have always been able to figure out a guys interest through their texting habits and has saved me time figuring...

He's shy and in a class above me. I think he likes me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

30 August 2016 (F) - Hi, I am a freshman in highschool and there is a guy in the class above me who I really like. When he was a freshman and I was in middle school, we were together for a month but broke up because of school and time with sports. This year is diff...

We met online. Am I being irrational about his actions? Should I be hurt ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - I met a man a few weeks ago on a dating site app. He definitely came on strong and we texted quite a lot til I agreed to meet. I am very attracted to hm and likewise. He has some issues, recent divorce, job changes, relocation but seems very hea...

Are my fears reasonable? I don't want to sabotage the relationship, nor invest emotion and time if he doesn't want what I want.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - I met a guy online, we text back and forth everyday, though sometimes it takes hours for him to text back, most of the time he apologizes other times he answers as though nothing happened. We have video chatted quite a few times and each session ...

What can I do? I dream about my fiance's s cousin over and over again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

28 August 2016 (M) - Little bit of a backround, I met my lady 2014 we fell in love she moved in with me very quickly and within a year we were pregnant we have had the baby now live in a 2 bed with my son who is my world and is now 10 months old. I like to think we are ...

Should I ask this guy out ? He doesn't even know me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

25 August 2016 (F) - There is this guy that I've liked for two years now. The problem is, he doesn't know my name at all. I am a third year medical student while he is a doctor training to be a surgeon. I see him all the time; I pass by him in the hospital corridor...

I'm still blocked, does he still hate me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

23 August 2016 (F) - Hi - I had a bad fall out with a guy who I discovered was two timing me. He got annoyed because I found out a lot of things about him and made sure people knew about it and so understandably he blocked me! Two years later - I have moved on...

I know I worry a lot. Scared of getting hurt again. How do I stop myself over-thinking things through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - I've been talking to a new guy for quite a while now and it has been going well.. we have both admitted we like each other quite a bit and have spent some good time together. I never thought I'd get over my ex who I broke up with over 4 months ag...

How can I ignore her attention seeking toxic responses and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - I am in love with my straight best friend I have been in love with her since i met her...but by then, we were young. She partially reciprocated my love, because i have told her i love her. She however is afraid of really coming out...s...

Was my Bf being insensitive for not texting me all day? Or am I expecting too much ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

21 August 2016 (F) - I need some objective advice. I am too close to the situation and too emotional I think. My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 3 years. Yesterday, he had family over for the day and did not contact me at all. I texted him at th...

Should I reach out to guy S? If yes what do I say? Or wait to see if N is still interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3013 days ago

21 August 2016 (M) - Okay. I’m going to start off by saying that there is probably a shorter way to explain my situation, but I can be sort of long winded. So I’m a gay man and I just finished college back in December. Five years ago, during my freshmen year of...

He treats me with disinterest. How can I get the courage to tell him to ''get lost'' ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

21 August 2016 (F) - So this is a bit complicated and I will try to keep it short. I used to have a thing for a guy when I was 16. I asked him out when I was 19 but he said no since he was in a relationship(which I was unaware of). Then I decided to move on and ...

Is this marriage worth saving? 11 years together, married eight years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - When I met my husband I fell madly in love with him, I was still a Virgin he was my first love. Life was good.....two years later I realized my husband LOVES attention from females, we fought and fought about it so he called me names..... I'm j...

Accidently ccontacted an ex' - now he won't leave me alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - I was bored upon a day, and this boredom spilled over to the next few days. So I checked my contact list on watsapp and began messaging friends I don't talk to anymore, then I messaged one of my ex boyfriends(one who disrespected me and still owes ...

Why do his friends and relatives communicate with on Social Media in the way they do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 August 2016 (F) - I have a silly question - first and foremost I need to clarify that I'm not hung on social media, just I'm curious and would like to see aunties and uncles on dear cupid view this situation. I've been with my BF for 3 years and have become frie...

Met him on a dating app, he's perfect but I'm too self-conscious to meet him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

18 August 2016 (F) - Long story so I'll try to shorten it as much as possible. So I matched with this guy on tinder 10 months ago. We messaged for 18 hours non stop, slept for 3 then started again. It was an incredible instant connection. If I could describe my perf...

Why did my Bf keep on cheating after all I did for him? Should I want him back after what he's done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

17 August 2016 (F) - why my bf lied to me always? there cupid,i need ur advice about my bf? I meet my bf on FB on net we get close and he messaged me everyday until he express his feelings one day. we keep talk and txt until we spent together we lived together....

I didn't ask for his number the first time we hung out. How and when do I approach him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

12 August 2016 (M) - So I am a gay male, and I have a situation I need help. I appreciate all advice. Long story short, I have had a crush on this fellow gay man that lives in the same town. He works at our local coffee shop and well, I felt bold last week to go with my ...

Social media addiction ... How can I stop experiencing this problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

8 August 2016 (F) - Does anyone have any advice on how to stop this social media addiction- I am surrounded by fake friends and people I just waste time with that all they do and j used to do is post on social media to show off - buy clothes go to expensive dinners or ...

Is it too early to try to define our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

7 August 2016 (F) - So I've been speaking to this guy since December. We met online and he perked up courage to ask me on a date in April. We went on a really nice cinema date before he left for work again offshore. We have recently went on another date at his which...

How can I overcome the fact that I can't stand being alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 August 2016 (F) - For the last four years all I have done is go out an party and get involved with the wrong people - even though these people are selfish- superficial and life revolves around their own selfish motives I go out just to get my mind off and not be a...

I did lie to her about my age. Do I get my ex girlfriend a birthday present, hoping she'll start talking to me again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 August 2016 (M) - Do I get my ex girlfriend a birthday gift, maybe a book, Starbucks gift card and small flowers with small card attached just saying Happy Birthday from me? Or what would you suggest? I want her back and just even talking again to start. I met this...

I'm not priority on his social media

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

6 August 2016 (F) - What do people think about texting a partner and them not getting back to you, but seeing they are on social media a few times, then they text you back about an hour etc later? My partner does this and it makes me feel like he looks at his phone...

Could we have a future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

4 August 2016 (F) - We met on Face book back in 2011 and met in person a moth later.We had strong connection but the distance eventually took it's toll and he broke it off since neither of us were in a position to move. After time part we would reconnect and...

How do I hint to potential online date friend id like to get to know him better

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

3 August 2016 (F) - Hi , i recently asked about making contact with a guy i like and know on a dating website i took everyones advice and messaged him , We had a little chat / bit of a catch up the problem now is we havent messaged each other today , i dont want to be ...

Is Facebook the way forward for me to meet him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

3 August 2016 (F) - I recently met a guy who works at a hotel bar/restaurant (he's 18, the same age as me) when I visited the bar for a drink with my mother. At first we were all just introducing ourselves (we're regulars at this bar and he's fairly new) but gradually ...

Is it odd to contact him out of the blue

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

3 August 2016 (F) - HiGuys! I have this guy on my Snapchat and Instagram. We used to talk because we used to work near each other. We haven't spoken for over a year, but I would like to contact him again. He's a good guy and I think it is boyfriend material lol. How I ...