Is Facebook the way forward for me to meet him?

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I recently met a guy who works at a hotel bar/restaurant (he's 18, the same age as me) when I visited the bar for a drink with my mother. At first we were all just introducing ourselves (we're regulars at this bar and he's fairly new) but gradually me and this guy has started talking to each more directly. He keeps playing with his hair when we talk and he won't stop looking at me. He's even remembered a lot of things about me and always addresses me by my name. I recently found him on Facebook but I don't know whether I should add him. We have two mutual friends on FB so he pops up in my 'recommended' part anyway. But do you think it looks weird or desperate to add him? We've only met a few times so far but we get on well and went to the same college, even though we never bumped into each-other. I really like him and I think this would be a great way to chat to each other outside of his workplace. (He's also single by the way). What's your opinion on this, should I add him?

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