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writes:Hi , i recently asked about making contact with a guy i like and know on a dating website i took everyones advice and messaged him , We had a little chat / bit of a catch up the problem now is we havent messaged each other today , i dont want to be in his face but i want to hint to him i do like him and to get to know me better what can i say without coming across desperate ?MOD NOTE: previous question and answers can be accessed here:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-make-first-contact.html Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2016): Im the OP . update were going on a date next weekend . I know not to pin all my hopes on this im just going to go enjoy my date if it leads to something then its a bonus . Thanks everyone for your advice .
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reader, Sofie93  +, writes (5 August 2016):
I don't know if he really is interested in you. But when I'm on online dating sites I'm usually talking to more then one person. So it might be he's just talking to other people. That doesn't mean he's not interested in you. Just tell him you'd like to get to know him better, and then ask him out. There's nothing you can lose, if he's not interested he will tell you. And if he's interested the proposal won't scare him. Don't play games, jus be straight forward with him. Good Luck!
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reader, yanna58 +, writes (4 August 2016):
You've already made it clear that you are interested by messaging him. I'd take a step back and let him reach out to you. If he contacts you, great. If not, he's not the last guy on earth.
Not to be mean, but you seem a little desperate, even in your question. I know it's probably because this is the first man who has piqued your interest in a while, but relax. In order for a relationship to work, you need to feel comfortable and confident, not obsessing about whether to message him.
Good luck and remember there are plenty of fish in the sea!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 August 2016):
 IS there something you KNOW he likes? Like music? movies? museums? art?
If so you could see what's around the area and ask him if he wants to go see XYZ.
Personally, I'd chill a little. So you haven't messaged today.. not a big deal.
However, I DO think.... if the interest was mutual he would have kept the conversations going. After all it's a DATING site where the goal is to meet someone special.
*sorry*
I'd see what else is out there and not put all my apples in one basket.
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