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*rlyn
writes:why my bf lied to me always? there cupid,i need ur advice about my bf?I meet my bf on FB on net we get close and he messaged me everyday until he express his feelings one day. we keep talk and txt until we spent together we lived together. we have many plan,but in the first place i dont feel his love as i do,im thinking there is something wrong with him? maybe he dont love me true but i keep silence because i love him maybe he just adjusting.to our relation He's my first man in my life first touch i mean.until we got far away he started to changes but he always calling me onces a months but we still messaging Fb he never make friendsi ask him if he have another one he keep telling me nothing.but i know he have but still i keep selince coz i dnt want to lose him i love him much.until i day he neved cal for almost 3months i was worry i call him i cannot contact him,after that i open fb then dat time i saw be with his new gf i feel so bad and depress idnt what to do i just pray I really hurt that he never told me if dnt want me anymore why keep lying to me and hurting me.we dont have normal break he stop also calling me,i knw he have another one but all.i wan to know is truth if he dont wanr me or not? why hide me everything i dnt what is purpose,we still dnt talk.i dont call. If he will call me i iwil.answer and make pretend nothing happen or if he ask forgiveness i can forgive him still i dnt knw whT to do all i know im still hurting and i wan to make revenges if he will come back to me i wan him to feel how to feel hurt , like he did.please i need your advice asap.thanks...??
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 August 2016):
 Stop being his doormat, honey.
This isn't love. This is him using you, because he knows you will fall in line EVERY time and forgive him.
Why do this to yourself? Why settle for a guy who doesn't treat you right?
If I were you I'd BLOCK him on EVERYTHING, don't GIVE him an opportunity to contact you and fill you heads with more lies.
He is a bad BF and not a very decent guy either. KNOW that you CAN DO better.
Cut him out of your life.
And remember a person's words needs to MATCH their actions. His doesn't. He is full of lies.
Don't waste time with revenge, it won't make YOU a better person or happier person. Cutting him out of your life like a tumor and moving on, finding happiness with GOOD guy can.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (17 August 2016):
 So sorry to tell you but you picked a wrong one. Don't humiliate yourself. He isn't worth a moment more of your time. Close the door on him now and forever. He doesn't love or respect you no matter how you want it to turn out.
Don't take his calls. Don't meet him. Cut this user from your life and find someone worthy of your love.
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