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Sex: Help and advice

Now that I am pregnant my husband is having difficulty with sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

31 May 2019 (F) - Hello, My husband and I are expecting a baby in November. He has two children already but this is our first together. The problem is that since we found out about the baby (it was planned) he has been experiencing erection problems. He has recently...

I'm married and am infatuated with a man who is also in a relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

29 May 2019 (F) - I am a married woman and I have developed an infatuation with another man. He is in a relationship too. I don’t know a great deal about him but I know he too fancies me. He has made it clear and has asked me out. I have never been unfaithful ...

Can men get so used to porn that they think of the porn stars as better than normal women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

28 May 2019 (F) - Is it possible that a man who has been single for a long time and used porn as his main sexual release can become infactuated with porn women and think of them as being better than or above ordinary women. I ask because the man o have met seems to ...

What is the average age for first time sex for a girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

28 May 2019 (F) - how old is the average age when a girl has sex for the first time?? ...

I think I really insulted my bf....how should I fix this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 1978 days ago

28 May 2019 (F) - A few days ago my bf came home from work and he came into our bedroom where I was reading/studying and to get my attention he took his penis out and wanted me to play with it....I told him to go away bc I was busy. When he came back to bed a few ...

He wants us to go back to "friends" after being so keen to start with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2013 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months, initially he was so keen and was talking about our future, plans, and meeting friends/family, but this has completely changed recently! He knew from the start that my father had cancer, which he...

Does he need to see a doctor?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

23 May 2019 (F) - I believe I have found the love of my life and started having sex with him the beginning of this year. There is only one problem. I feel he is emotionally very distant after sex. I would like to cuddle after sex but he immediately falls asleep after ...

My boyfriend goes too quickly during sex. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

21 May 2019 (F) - I don’t know how to talk to my boyfriend about this without him saying i dont like out s*x life or making him feel bad. I love what wr have but he tends to finish too quickly, 2 days ago it was probably 30 seconds, and it has happened before but it ...

He talks about sex but never performs. Is he gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

20 May 2019 (F) - I have been with a man for 15 months, We are both in our mid 50s . He says he loves me but he has NO passion. He kisses me but they are little pecks. He will some time kiss my neck and when I am feeling a little excited, he pushes me away. He says ...

My boyfriend doesn't want sex as much and its starting to bother me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2017 days ago

20 May 2019 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a couple of years and we do love each other, our sex life I would say is pretty good. We dont live together and see each other 3 nights per week. But the past few weeks on a Sunday evening we have not had sex as usual ...

My boyfriend stares at and approaches other women, it makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1996 days ago

20 May 2019 (F) - my boyfriend keeps looking at other women when we are out and ive seen him literally turn his neck to side and stare for ages at other women also he goes up to women on theyre own and chats to them about anything usually starting with theyre dog to ...

My partner avoids me, but says there is nothing wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - Hi people I really need some advice I’ve been with my partner for 6 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a son from a previous relationship we’ve been having problems this last year I caught him watching porn which normally would not of ...

We're both unhappy in our marriages and have a long history. Should we have sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

18 May 2019 (F) - When I was a teenager While visiting family i met a boy, through high school we crushed back and forth on each other secretly and living in different ends of the country made it impossible for anything to happen. As young adults be told me he liked ...

My husband looks at young women in porn and tells me I should just be happy he's still having sex with me despite my shortcomings

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

17 May 2019 (F) - My husband looks at porn of women around 18- 20 . I’m entering menopause and feeling extremely depressed about my changes to my body such as less elasticity and lubrication wrinkles etc . I’m fit and healthy but nothing makes me as young as the ...

Is it ok to have sex with my aunt who's now divorced from my uncle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

16 May 2019 (M) - My non-biological aunt and I are considering a sexual relationship. She divorced my uncle about 8 months ago and got completely cut off from my family until I messaged her. We have gone on a few "dates" and been sexual but only with our hands (i.e. ...

I can't get over him, we had sex once but he has a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

16 May 2019 (F) - A year ago I fell in love with someone who had a girlfriend. After months of building sexual tension, we had sex once, after which he told his girlfriend. She told him never to contact me again. For a few months he didn't, then he got back in touch. ...

How do I calm down during foreplay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

13 May 2019 (M) - I'm very new to the world of sex, having never been in a relationship before. I now have a girlfriend who is equally as inexperienced. We've never actually had intercourse but I was wondering what people actually do during sex/foreplay when it comes ...

When he wants to initiate sex, I'm never in the mood. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 3 1/2 years and I feel like we have a normal sex life. We have sex at least once a week, sometimes more if we're not busy and stressed and so on. But the other night we were watching tv together and he started trying to ...

I've been a mistress for a long time and am starting to get bored with it all.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2028 days ago

9 May 2019 (F) - Hi guys. I've been a mistress for a long time. I can't really talk to people about this. But I'd like to know if it's normal to grow tired of being in a "relationship" which never grows or evolves? I am feeling tired of being a sex toy. Tired of ...

He says he loves me but doesn't respond to my texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - I met a guy on a dating App about a month ago. We hit it off well - he seemed sweet and respectful. We met and there was a lot of sparks and chemistry. We both have complicated relationship statuses - he's divorced with a child from the marriag...

I've lost my sex drive. How do I get it back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2031 days ago

5 May 2019 (M) - Hello everyone, I must say I’m a little embarrassed with this one, I’m 27 years old, been with my GF for roughly 3 years and have completely lost my sex drive. We went from having sex multiple times a day to once a week/fortnight. I just fe...

He says his affair was my fault. I am emotionally exhausted!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

1 May 2019 (F) - My husband and I have been married for nearly 7 years. I got married young (21) and he was 25. I knew at the time that he was a bit insecure but I guess I was young and naïve. The insecurity is getting worse and worse. A couple of years ago, I h...

Should I make him my friend with benefits

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

1 May 2019 (F) - So I met a guy about 14 years ago and was instantly attracted to him. He had a girlfriend at the time and I had just got into a new relationship too. I’m not going to lie there was one or 2 nights we hooked up and did things we shouldn’t of ...