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Sex: Help and advice

He wants phone sex but I don't should I give in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1930 days ago

30 July 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I are long distance right now and will be until Christmas. We're living at opposite sides of the country. We can see each other a couple of times a month. For the in-between time, he wants us to try phone sex. I find the whole idea ...

Weed consumes his whole life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1930 days ago

27 July 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve got a problem hopefully you can help me with my partner is a heavy weed smoker this drives me mad when we first met he had the odd joint now and again fast forward to 6 years later and he spends hundreds on it each month never has any money ...

He said he had been celibate but after we had sex he told me he had herpes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

26 July 2019 (F) - I'm so afraid right now.Here's a summary of what happened. I recently connected with my ex and we attempted to be intimate but he could not become aroused,he said it was because he was nervous and that he hadn't had sex in 4 years. I found it really ...

Why do I feel offended my BF wants to take an enhancement pill?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1912 days ago

24 July 2019 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been working our arses off these past few months and have planned a dirty weekend away together in a few weeks. We’ve hardly seen each other in that time because we’ve been so busy with work, family and events like weddings ...

My relationship is good, except for the sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1937 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Hello. I am in a relationship with a guy for 4 months now. He is a really nice person. We always connect on so many levels. He loves me and i love him too. He understands me and supports me. He is like a backbone. He is very romantic and very loyal ...

How can I tell if he's taking Viagra?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1937 days ago

20 July 2019 (F) - Hello everyone I reconnected with my ex recently and everything has been going great. We haven't been together in about 8 years so its like getting to know him all over again. He is 28. The problem is when we decided to have intercourse the ...

If I could see into the future and see that our marriage would be the same for the next 20 years, then that is not what I want for my life.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1944 days ago

16 July 2019 (M) - Hi, I need help with something. I am a 23 year old Christian man, I have been married for two years and the last year has been sexless. My wife and I got married two years ago and initially I could tell that she was nervous about sexual intimacy (we ...

For the men: Do you say I love you during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

15 July 2019 (F) - Dear Gentlemen, If you are in a committed relationship do you say "I love you" during sex? If you don't say it please tell why? This is purely about the phrase "i love you". THANK YOU!!!...

I've compromised so much of what I want to stay with my husband but I'm not happy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1947 days ago

13 July 2019 (F) - I've been married a long time,no children, been through a very bad patch that we came through, have always had a strong bond, we share a lot of interests and agree on a lot of things but I've put up with a lot of things that made me unhappy for the ...

Worried that my wife may get what I am too tired to give from her ex fiance!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1931 days ago

13 July 2019 (M) - I need some advice as to what I should do, if anything, about a situation that has come up in my marriage. We have been married for 4 yrs. I am 27 and my wife is 26. Our marriage is mostly good and our sex life is good but our twice a week norm is ...

How do I get my bf to try anal with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1950 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - Straight to the point, how do I get my bf to try anal with me? I’ve brought it up a couple of times and I’ve done it before with other bf’s but my bf now is the most respectful guy that even when we have sex he asks if he can do certain things which ...

To very submissive people out here with partners that want them to be dominant, what did you do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1952 days ago

9 July 2019 (F) - A bit of a dilemma, looking for some advice! First off, I love my husband and absolutely want to please him. Second off, I'm a highly submissive person by nature, in everything, not just the bedroom. Being dominant assertive is difficult for me...

I feel he led me on and then rejected my offer for sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1947 days ago

9 July 2019 (F) - I (27F) have been having a crush on a colleague at work (46M). We hang out together and have lunch/dinner together. Since he is moving out of state, I wanted to confess my feelings for him before he left, and I knew it would not lead to a serious ...

Its been so long I've forgotten how to have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1951 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - Well, I've spent the last few years focusing on my daughters rather than my sex life. Well, my kids both had a sleep over with a friend of theirs over the holiday weekend. Made dinner for my boyfriend, and made our own little date night at home. We ...

Should I not continue seeing this guy because of our conflicting views on sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 32 year old female whose responsible, ambitious and adventurous. I've also been a Christian for the past 5 years and attend church regularly, bible study, etc. I'm also abstaining from sex until marriage. Since my last breakup ...

I want some excitement in the bedroom. How do I nudge my b/f in that direction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years and our sex life was great the first year and the second year it has been pretty rough. Lately, I’ve been hinting at my bf to do some things differently in the bedroom but it seems he ...

Why has my husband of 15 years suddenly become so interested in anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - Hello I’m wondering why my husband of 15 years is suddenly only wanting to have foreplay with my anal it’s bern a couple months and I feel he’s prepping me slowing he started touching me there then kissing and licking and now he’s trying to do it ...

Is my boyfriend’s sexual behavior normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

5 July 2019 (F) - Hello, I don’t know how to bring this up, but I am curious about my boyfriend’s behavior. If anyone would like to explain it. I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven years. We are both in our 20s. Anyway, my boyfriend is a sensitive guy no...

I walked in on my husband performing oral sex on my best friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1954 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Hi there. I am 29 years old and have been married for 5 years. My husband and I have been together since we were young teens. I never thought he could hurt me but I was away on holiday with my friend and we came home early, when i returned I walked ...

Straight friend wants to try gay sex with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1955 days ago

3 July 2019 (M) - This guy and me, we're friends from childhood, we have known each other our whole lives. I'm gay and he's straight. Recently he broke up with his girlfriend and that's when he told me he'd like to try it with a guy (it meaning sex). I told hi...

We have been dating for 9 months no sex getting frustrated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1957 days ago

3 July 2019 (M) - I'm 29 and my girlfriend is 26. She's a virgin, specifically never had sex, kissed, or even had a boyfriend before me so I do know a lot of stuff makes her nervous. She told me all this after our first kiss. I told her I would be fine with not ...

We've been involved but now he blocks me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1958 days ago

3 July 2019 (M) - We both date girls and we're both 32, . My "straight" guy friend at 14 said he "fell for me" in highschool. He said don't tell no one! We lose our virginity to each other and have sex for 2 years. 2019, I reached out, told him I've always had ...

I am in a sexless marriage! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1953 days ago

2 July 2019 (F) - Hello. I have been married for almost three years now. When we were dating our sex life was great. My then boyfriend was spontaneous, he would initiate most of the time. But after we got married and I got pregnant our sex life just dwindled...