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female
age
41-50,
*arieb
writes: Hello I’m wondering why my husband of 15 years is suddenly only wanting to have foreplay with my anal it’s bern a couple months and I feel he’s prepping me slowing he started touching me there then kissing and licking and now he’s trying to do it anal with me but I think he’s afraid to actually do it but he wants to! he knows I don’t like that and he’s also not saying nothing to me as if I wouldn’t notice! He’s always went down on me good foreplay before sex always made sure I was satisfied and now he doesn’t even do that he sometimes cums just rubbing on my ass it’s out of the blue I’m confused!
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reader, Phil052 +, writes (9 July 2019):
I'm guessing he has always had an interest and is now looking to explore more, but you need to tell him you have no interest in doing it!
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reader, Marieb +, writes (9 July 2019):
Marieb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much for taking the time to give me some insight on my question!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2019): If you really need to know, I think he's the one to ask. All we can do is speculate and toss random guesses.
My guess is, he always wanted it; and finally got-up the nerve to try and coax you into it. I think your suspicion is he has been watching porn? Maybe he has, and maybe he hasn't. He still might have wanted it all along; but you did say you don't like that. He's testing the waters anyway!
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (8 July 2019):
Maybe he wants to spice things up? Why not just ask him?
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female
reader, chigirl +, writes (8 July 2019):
So why dont you ask him?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 July 2019):
TALK to him.
If you two have been married that long you can TALK about sex. You can set boundaries if you so wish but WE can't read your husband's mind.
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