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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My partner's sex drive is lower than mine and I've started developing feelings elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

30 December 2017 (M) - Gay male in a long term relationship for 3.5 years with another gay male, similar age. For the first six months of our relationship, we had sex multiple times per week. After that it petered out and since then, we only have sex about once a month, ...

Is it selfish to break up with him over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - A couple of months ago my boyfriend and I had an argument, I was trying my best to start sex with him, I don't know if he was maybe tired but he got annoyed and said it's a turn off putting sex on a plate. So I decided to stop trying, I though...

I told my wife the truth and she is furious!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

28 December 2017 (M) - I have been married to my wife for about 11 years now and have 2 kids, a girl aged 8 and a boy aged 4. Recently I was on a night out with friends and were at this bar where we met a few girls and ended up going to their apartment which was nearby. ...

Should I pursue this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I've been having this strange "relationship" with this man over a year now. We met through common friends. Since then he's been chasing me. He was very charming and we really got along, always had something to talk about and there is tons of ...

We're both 26, been together 3 years and done nothing sexually beyond kissing! It's just driving me up the wall!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2511 days ago

27 December 2017 (M) - Have been dating for over 3 years, we clicked in more than one way and we're fond of each other. We're both 26 and haven't had sex yet (both virgins) . It's likely she hasn't ever had an orgasm or done much "exploration" on her own either. I have ...

All he wants is sex, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together since July and I don’t know him he loves me he says he does but all he wants is sex I love him with all my heart but do I stay or leave should I wait a year ...

Married man taking me for a ride and dumping without closure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - I am 34 single been in a few bad relations and have always been dumped. After 4 years I recently met this man online and he started off with lies. It turned out he was married with a Pico and he says it's his conscience which made him speak the ...

Am I a terrible person for wanting an abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - I'm 18 in my first year at university. In week one I met this guy and we became friends, and then really close friends, spending a lot of time together and when we weren't together, talking on the phone and texting. As you can imagine, we got ...

Will he wait for me to be ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend got his very first teaching job this fall teaching music at an elementary school. I always knew he would be a great teacher, he loves kids and music is his passion. We met last year in university; he is two years older and kind of ...

Playing truth or dare .... I didnt like his answer.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been talking to this boy he’s in the same year as me but in a different school and tonight we were playing truth or dare I asked him what the most he had done with a girl is and he said he wants to take it back but he’s fingered someone.Ohhh ...

My boyfriend wants me to do stuff, I feel stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been togetehr for a while now and he wants to go further. I’m not sure if i’m quite ready for anything because i haven’t done anything since my last boyfriend. Me and him both have don’t stuff, but with other people ...

The men I’m attracted to never like me back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

20 December 2017 (F) - Ok so my problem is quite straightforward - the men I’m attracted to never like me back! I don’t know maybe my standards are too high, but how do I change that? I’ve tried all of the usual advice, including dating different types of men; focusing...

I'm crushing on my ex's brother, his partner is my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I no this might sound really bad. But I am so confused right now!! I split with my ex over 3 years ago we have a child together. I have stayed close with his brother and with The brothers current partner. Me and the brother have always been flirty ...

An older man wants me to move in as a live in lover.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - hi im kinda thinking about maybe accepting this proposal to be this guys full time sort of live in lover.He was the one who suggested it would make him a kinda suger daddy. He seems very nice (we have met on 3 occasions now and althogh i manage...

How do I get started with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

19 December 2017 (M) - Little background: I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. Total geek, overweight, and not handsome/physically attractive in anyway. Basically no redeeming qualities for the opposite sex. I've long thought about just seein...

Did this Married Man forget his former mistress already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I dated a Married Man (MM) for a year and a half. We both worked at my dad’s office. He got caught by his wife 3 times but never left me. The 3rd time he got caught things got pretty bad. He started going to counseling and distanced himself from me. ...

He wants sex 2 times a day or more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - I started seeing a mew guy. I really really like him. Hes very very affectionate which i love. However, he wants sex/relief twice a day, sometimes even more! The other day he woke me at 3am to have sex, but in the morning he wanted it again. Every ...

Two questions about my breasts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - First Question: my boyfriend keeps asking me to show him my chest and am afraid. when i date him i always wear light clothes and no bra. when hugging him i stick soo close to him hoping that he will feel my brests and strip the clothes for hims...

I'm a virgin but want to know how long I'll last when I have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - Greetings. I'm a virgin and and am thinking of me being able to last very long. Is it possible to know how long I can do it without doing sex as yet? As masturbation is not the same as cohabitation. Thanks a lot. May we all be guided in both l...

Should I own up to my size?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

17 December 2017 (M) - I only have 4 inches erect and I met this girl about month ago. She is very beautiful and has great personality. We have gotten more physical in the relationship but due to nervousness I invent excuse to leave before she sees me naked or before sex ...

Is my boyfriend too sexually demanding?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend around half a year. He has really bad anger issues which he has been trying to control but he still has his outbursts. One of the things that triggers these outbursts is when I don’t give him head when he wants it. ...

Our intimacy is gone and I don't know what to think or say?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

15 December 2017 (M) - Don’t know what to think or say!! I haven been married for 15 years to a wonderful lady. Like every marriage we have encountered ups and downs. For about a year our intimacy is gone. She gets off work at 5:30pm arrives home at 8:30pm. She is a...

What is a normal amount of sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - Im 30 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We don't have any kids. How much sex would be 'normal'? Id say on average we probably do it twice a month. ...

Our sexual needs are different

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

11 December 2017 (M) - My girl friend and I got in an argument last night about sex. I get tired it’s me who wants sex. She never starts it, and now she is too tired, because of work, one full time job an one part time job. I realize that, but now it’s the holidays. She ...

First time sex was this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - I had sex for the first time and I noticed it wasn't that comfortable. As it was my first, I assumed it was just a matter of getting used to it. However at one point, it really hurt and was uncomfortable around my bum which I wasn't sure about. L...

What are the odds of this girl getting pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

10 December 2017 (M) - Hello. I went out on a date with a young 26 year old lady that I met online, and things went pretty well. Anyways afterwards she invited me to her room and well we started making out and one thing lead to another and we ended up undressing and ...

I'm paranoid about getting someone pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

10 December 2017 (M) - I'm paranoid about getting someone pregnant. I'm currently 31 and have had 1 or 2 sexual partners every year since my mid twenties. Every time I do have sex I use the condom properly, and most of the women I've been with are also on the p...

When will sex start to feel good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

8 December 2017 (F) - I have had sex a few times now (Like 4). When is it going to start feeling good? It doesn't hurt, I just don't really feel anything. Is that a bad thing?...

I’m worried commitment means forfeiting sexual fulfillment, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

7 December 2017 (M) - I’m in my mid-twenties and have been in a loving relationship six years, but I’m frustrated by my attraction to others. Whilst my partner has a colourful sexual history, I’ve only ever been with them and I feel by staying, I’m losing opportunities ...

My sons are using the house for dating. What should I tell them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

5 December 2017 (M) - I’m a single dad of two teenage boys, one is 17 (almost 18) the other is 15. My oldest has a girlfriend and recently I found out they have been using my house after school for their hook up spot. I came home from work last week and found an empt...

I feel guilty I cheated on my boyfriend with his boss

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - I’m 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We’ve been together for about 2 1/2 years and I’m beyond happy with him. The other night, we were fighting and I ended up leaving our apartment and just going for a drive when I stopped at the gas station and saw his ...

I broke it off. Was I right? How do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

3 December 2017 (M) - I was with her for 1 year. Everything was going great until 3-4 months in we started having problems. We both made mistakes and we’ve been on and off many times. We somehow managed to move past all of that and we fell in love. It’s then when we got ...

I fear my husband is no longer in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

1 December 2017 (F) - My husband and so have been together 10 years and married 8 of those years. We have an 11 month old and a 7 years old. So am I crazy or is he falling put of love with me? He hates his job and only has 1 week left before he changes jobs. For the...