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How would I go about turning on my shy and bi best friend?

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Question - (9 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What does another girl do to turn you on or warm you up? I'm bi curious but not sure how to get my bestfriend who his bi curious too to warm up to me? We have always talked about messing around but we've never done it. Should I start by rubbing her legs and mentioning how soft they are or should I try just being playful. I need ideas to break the ice? Going out with her and husband soon and I want to have fun with her. She has always talked about being with girls but she is a little shy. Help from experienced girls will be good

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010):

This is my question and its going to be with my husband and I she goes out with. She is also into watching me and my husband mess around. She has told us she would like to watch us play and maybe have sex. Should I get us all a little relaxed with drinks and sit her back for a show first?

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A female reader, BettyBoup United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2010):

BettyBoup agony auntHi

I'm not experienced other than kissing girls before. But, you say you've spoken about it so you know shes open to it. Perhaps when you speak to her suggest casually and playfully that you'd like something to happen between you and her when you are going out with her and her husband. See how she reacts. If she seems shy but keen and isnt taken aback, Id go for it. (I'm assuming her husband is on board with this?)

I'd suggest being playful with her, complement her and flirtatiously touch her. Be suggestive and if she doesn't recoil, lean in, kiss her and go from there. If its something she wants she'll go with it, even if she's shy.

Hope this helps :)

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