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anonymous
writes: ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times...each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ...what may be the problem...me ,,,him,,,,or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim having a baby now !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
i was actually pregnant when i wrote this lol but didnt know ...
im 2 months and a half now !
soo happy .
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): 8 times in 5 months, thats not a lot no. Perhaps you are also having sex at the time when you are least likely to get pregnant.
Buy one of these tests in the pharmacy that calculates when your ovulation is. That could help.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (9 February 2010):
I am having infertility treatment at the moment to extend the brood...here is what the doctor told me. To get pregnant you have to try 2-3 times a week as a minimum for a year - you are most likely to get pregnant at certain times of the month and can buy ovulation kits to test if you want. After that it is time to get checked out for medical explanations - low sperm count, ovulation problems with you...there are simple tests for excluding most medical explanations. Before going down that road you also have to look at your weight, diet, smoking and alcohol (both you and your partner). Pre-conception health of the mother is an important factor in the long term well being of the baby. Keep trying often and try to cut down on your stress.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 February 2010):
8 times in 5 months is Not enough if you are trying to get pregnant.
If you don't have a sex life now then how do you know you are going to be able to stay with this guy for the next 20 years?
If you both just love eachother but don't like sex then you an buy gadgets from the chemist that tells you when the best time is to have sex in your cycle.
Go and have a chat to a pharmacist about it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): it may depend on your ovalation dates, his sperm count, life style choices, whether you have been on the pill and how long since you came off etc - but at such an age i wouldn't worry just yet. If after a year or two, then i'd consult the doctor but its still early days - just because its not happened yet, does not mean it won't happen. I know i should not judge but please try not to get pregnant at such a young age, it changes your life forever and robs you of your freedom. You are so young, live your life first before creating life - please. Use protection.
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reader, Faraday +, writes (9 February 2010):
Just keep practising!
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