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writes:I've suffered from premature ejaculation for over 2 years. Me and my girlfriend were going out for 2 years before we broke up. I always lasted about 15 seconds before I ejaculation. We tried different positions and everything but nothing seemed to work.There was this one time when I ate so much and she wanted sex. When we started my stomach really ached and I was more worried about me being sick than anything else and I think because of this that was why I lasted over 10 minutes for the first time.Now I'm single and I'm worried its going to be the same when I get another girlfriend. When I masterbate I seem to lack sex drive but can last about 3 minutes without porn and only 1 with porn added. I need to find a way to make myself last longer.I tried kegel exercises and the stop and start method but it doesn't seem to work. Maybe I'm doing it wrong but i don't think so.Please help me out. Any advice would be great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Have you ever heard of "never go in with a loaded gun", when trying to score up a piece of ass? Well in your case, it applies to sex. Jack off before each love making session, and if it helps, jack off a couple times a day to lose some of that sensitivity.Shake a leg.
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reader, LoverBoy91  +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Maybe it's because you think too much about your pleasure and the fact that you're close to coming. Maybe you should let go and let your girl please herself with your penis, just watch her have fun. Remember that the mind is a really powerful tool, if you think too much about your own pleasure, you'll actually feel it double. If you think you're going to come, then you will, if you think "I'm not gonna come, I'm not gonna come!" you will. Just let go, don't think of anything. If you can, think about the Pokemon episode you were watching before, I know it sounds ridiculous, but it works, just "tune" yourself out of the sex encounter and let her enjoy for a while, after some time, maybe you'll want to join her in the pleasure and then actually enjoy the act, but don't think about coming or not, just enjoy it, and when then when the real sensation about coming actually comes, then just let it happen. Your girl won't mind if you allowed her to please herself a bit too.If you want, you can also try some oral on her after coming, so you can compensate for coming, and you may even get her to come too! Girls love when you go down on them as much as us guys do. Try different combinations down there and please her as much as you can, your tongue won't get tired, and it won't feel the need to come either. After pleasing her with oral, maybe your penis will have relaxed long enough to get hard again and you may want to go for a 2nd round. Usually the 2nd round you'd last much longer than the 1st one. Just do the same thing you do in the 1st round, think about cute little birdies, or that red hot Lamborghini you saw the other day. And let her do the working, or if you're on top then just think that you're exercising, imagine yourself doing push-ups. Summary, don't think about what you're feeling, just let her please herself, don't think that you're going to come, because if you do, you will. After a while, if you want to come then feel free, and after you do, offer yourself for some oral on her, then you might wanna go for a 2nd round, and repeat the process of the 1st round. Just make it fun.And remember, it'll take a bit of practice, it doesn't mean that just by doing this you'll last an hour on your first try, it might take like 5-10 1st rounds to master it. (that's what took me to master it myself, although I wasn't suffering from premature ejac, I'd usually last like 7-10 mins.) Now I can pretty much last as long as I want to last.Feel free to email me if you got more questions, or if you want tips on how to please her with oral too. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): This is Easy.1. Don't watch porn.2. Eat well before sex3. Keep masturbating4. Stay single
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