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writes:This may be kind of long...Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins).So heres the deal, before him and i started dating, i was with a not so nice guy. This guy had given me hand jobs before, but they always seemed to hurt rather than feel good.But now, when my current boy friend gives me a hand job, its feels great; however, i never feel as if ive orgasmed. Honestly, i dont think i can tell the difference between having an orgasm and just being horny. They feel the same to me. I have never felt the need to scream, or moan heavy, or felt as if i cant move because it feels so good, or anyting like that.I mean, what he does feels SO amazing...but i dont know if i have ever had an orgasm.so here are my questions...1: Do you orgasm every time you come?2: Would i know an orgasm if i felt one?3: Is there any way that the roughness of what me ex did, would make it harder for me to have an orgasm?
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (10 February 2010):
 Dont feel stupid at all! thats what we are here for, wish I would've had a place like this to ask all these questions when I was a youngster! if you have any questions, never feel dumb to post whatever quesions u have about anything! thats the only way you wil learn,right?
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reader, new_at_this +, writes (10 February 2010):
new_at_this is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys. i feel kind stupid for asking some of those things...what can i say? im new at this hahaha thank you for helping :)
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reader, ~darkfairyprincess~ +, writes (9 February 2010):
Trust me. You will know when you have one. If you say you don't know if you've had one, that means you haven't. I was in the same situation as you. My ex and I had fooled around and stuff, but we never had sex. I lost my virginity to the guy I'm with now. He gave me my first orgasm, and I was like wow! That's what it feels like! You said your boyfriend is a virgin too, and that's probably part of the problem. Not saying that its a bad thing to be a virgin! Its great that you both are, but that means he is inexperienced and doesn't really know what to do to give you an orgasm. My ex was a virgin as well. My current bf was not. Just talk to him and tell him what feels good and when he is doing it right. You will eventually have an orgasm. And when you do, you will know. It will blow your mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): 3. Whatever you ex did will have no effect on your ability to have an orgasm.
2. Yes, you would know an orgasm if you had one, I honestly dont think you've had one yet.
1. To "come" for a guy means he ejaculates, and most of the time that is connected with an orgasm. Girls dont have a habit of ejaculating (although some do a similar move, but those are rare), so for girls "coming" does not happen. We orgasm when our clitoris is being stimulated the right way.
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (9 February 2010):
Youve never had an orgasm! When you do, you'll feel silly for asking! trust me! if I were you, Id masterbate, and take lots of time doing it, pay special attention to your clit, when you feel the feeling of pressure start building up inside of you, you'll know your on the right track, when you learn how to bring yourself to orgasm, you will be a lot more free, and able to show guys(or girls) what the proper way to bring you to orgasm is! or so ive heard?
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