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writes:So I just got out of a 6 year marriage and for the last two years or so I've been obsessing about threesomes. I'm a very people-oriented guy and make friends fast and keep them for a long time. I always love being in groups and I've always thought 3-or more arrangements would be fun, I've heard a lot of people say it can be dangerous, but they are very addictive if pulled off right. Now that I'm single, it's almost like that threesomes aren't as important, I think maybe I just needed something new, but my wife was not into it really, so we never really had one, is it possible that I just grew bored with my wife, or is it more likely that I'm always going to have this curiosity? I don't know if mentioning that I want to have a threesome is something I want to do on the early dates, especially with one girl that found out my wife and I wanted to have one with her being very harsh about her judgment of us afterward. I am a musician and "great in bed" from what I hear, and I just love pleasing others, with my music, or my penis or just the general entertainment that comes with knowing me. Is it a bad idea to mention threesomes to girls that I might be risking not having 1-on-1 sex with?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (9 February 2010):
 What type of relationship do you prefer. If you want 1-1 sex, then tell the girl that's all your interested in. If you want a threesome, then again, be truthfulness and explain that you get turned on by this and will be planning it as soon as you get the opportunity. If you want a stable loving relationship, then I think it's best not to mention sex at all, but go for friendship first. I don't know what the women you like want, and neither will you until you ask them.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 February 2010):
 If you're interested in a threesome, I would perhaps go into a situation in which people are already looking for threesomes. Try Craigslist Casual Encounters or some other website or swingers club in which people are looking for the same thing that you are. You're right, threesomes are a tricky thing to just bring up... so if you're just interested in experimenting and trying it out, I might think of going that avenue.
Just a thought. Good luck!
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