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writes: ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. we always end up talkin about something sexual when were together too. and when we use to spend the night at each others houses we really touched a lot til late at night. we have done this for 2 or 3 years now but were both really horny. and shes usually the one who asks me if i want to watch porn. anyway idk if i should ask her if she wants to have sex, just start massaging her, not do it at all, or how to start it off. shes on birth control and im pretty sure i can get a condom somewhere. she has the hottest 14 year old body ever and i really want to bang her. plz give me some advice....
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 The genetic risks for abnormality in children from first cousins comes out at about 4.6%, meaning that in 96% of cases they will have a healthy child.
"In children of unrelated couples, the risk of congenital and genetic including recessive problems is usually estimated at about 2-3 per cent. First cousins have a higher risk of recessive problems in children than unrelated couples because they share 12.5 per cent of their genetic material and may have inherited the same mutation from a common ancestor. Risk to their children is usually estimated at about double the risk of congenital and genetic problems in children of unrelated couples. At about 4-6 per cent, this doubled risk is also a 94-96 per cent chance that their child will be perfectly healthy. A cousin couple is thus more likely to have a healthy child than to have a child with a recessive problem."
http://www.bionews.org.uk/page_38000.asp
These statistics are more than comparable to the dangers of having children over the age of 40years old.
"In order to further contextualise this risk, the Genetic Interest Group (GIG) have made a useful comparison with another risk factor during pregnancy: increased maternal age. According to GIG, the effect of increased maternal age on the rate of Down syndrome, a specific type of chromosomal abnormality, can be compared with the increased risk posed by consanguinity. At 35 years of age, the risk of Down syndrome is four times that at age 25 and increases 15 times by the age of 40. The absolute risk at 40 years is one in every 100 births."
http://www.hgc.gov.uk/client/Content.asp?ContentId=741
Again, I suggest you do the research, and while your at it, please consider that in at least 5 states in America, marriagges between first cousins are not illegal.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (7 March 2010):
In cultures like India, first cousins do marry and stay happily married. America is one of the few countries in the world that has forbidden this. Freeofguilt, I suggest you do the research, and find out why Europe, India and most of the world have never ever had a problem with this.
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reader, freeofguilt  +, writes (7 March 2010):
There are many laws which are antiquitated, so just because it has been practiced does not mean that it is right. Aside from the current and progressive social norm, modern science is also now in the majority that cousins should not have intercourse with the possible outcome being a genetically crossed infant. Relating back to the soical ideals, it is apparent that though it has been done in Britan, that the current majority is against it. Feel free to do the research at the success rate of the immediate relationship, to the future relationship between the participants and their families, and any reasonable person would determine that relationships with family members should be off limits.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (6 March 2010):
If you are from Britian you are able to marry your cousin... In America it may be illegal, but in Britian relationships with your cousin, first, second or whatever are not wrong.
The queen of our country is married to her cousin, our royalty and aristocracy often marry this way.
There is nothing within the bible to say that this is wrong, and some cultures actually prefer that cousins marry.
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reader, freeofguilt +, writes (6 March 2010):
The age thing aside (as I wonder where your parents are)...having a relationship or sexual relations with a cousin, cousin by marriage, sister in law, brother in law..etc..goes against the social moral norm. In other words, it's wrong. There are those who justify the relationship to appease themselves, sure..but the thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. Furthermore, you are forever removing the ability to argue your moral stand. "Hey, you can't do abc..." which will undoubtedly be responded to with "Coming from someone who will do their cousin? Whatever." The comment "thereare 9 billion people in the world, there is no reason to bang your family." made me laugh, and it's very true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): Here is my thought on it: society as a norm thinks having a relationship/sexual relations with a cousin, even a cousin by marriage, to be wrong. I know that justifying this to yourself is a pretty common thread here, but those who do this are off in their good judgement. I'm with the majority on this one, cousins by marriage, sisters in law, brothers in law, cousins genetically linked...all wrong to be involved with..(and frankly make me a little sick to my stomach)...but the "there are 9 billion people in the world, there is no reason to bang your family." made me laugh.
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reader, lovexlikewinter7 +, writes (4 March 2010):
there are 9 billion people in the world, there is no reason to bang your family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): the same thing happen to me but we was both girls even through we play the games nothing happen we was just trying to do what we saw on tv im not gay but i also dont advice no one to do that so just be friends and find someone else everyone is have a sexy body in their own way just search what you looking for and dont mess with your cousin
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Strictly legally speaking, having sex under the age of 18 is the states is illegal, having sex under the age of 16 is illegal in Norway, and what I hear also in the UK. But you need to love by the laws in YOUR country. It means that if someone finds out that you had sex, you can end up in huge trouble! Even with the police involved!
In my country, it is not illegal for cousins to have sex, but illegal for them to marry (and I assume for that very same reason it would be natural to assume not allowed to have sex either), unless you get consent from the king.
What Im saying here is, think with your head and not your penis. This could get you into so much trouble, it shouldn't even be worth considering. Just be aware of that. And if she is being too much of a tease, stop contacting her.
For your information, I had a boyfriend once who told me his first time was with his cousin. I think it was disgusting, nasty, and it's borderline incest. Is that what you want a future girlfriend to think of you?? That you are nasty and disgusting?
If you really really want sex, ask your cousin if she has some nice friends instead. At least that way you wont be accused for incest.
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reader, purpleprincess +, writes (9 February 2010):
Lol this must be a joke but if it isn't I'd advise to not go down that route. Your both way to young and your related so its kinda a lot wrong where I come from. Maybe try dating other girls that you arnt related to and take it slow. You got your whole life to experience sex. No rush man
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Oh come on is this West Virginia Day at DC?...I just answered a post about some guy that wants to screw his sister in law and now this?
This is so wrong on so many levels
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): How is she even able to get birth control at her age?
As a (future) dad, I would want my kids to wait until they are at least 16, preferably 18+. And also to find love first. I'm into health. It's not an innocence thing.
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reader, Faraday +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Hey foldy roll, I smell a troll!
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reader, supermum +, writes (9 February 2010):
 OK, jeez i hope this is a joke. Well, for starters, you are far to young to be considering this, secondly, if she is older, and initiates contact, this could be considered abuse. Thirdly, where do you get your porn from????? Its 18 plus for a reason.
Why dont you stop playing games with eachother and just be friends for a while? You have to also think about your families. Although (in the UK at least, not sure about the USA) its not illegal to have sex with your cousin, (it is illegal to have sex underage) how will your familes deal with it when they find out? Are they likely to stop conact alltogether?
Please spend some time to think about this.
Ok, now for the advice you wanted, i dont want you to do this, please remember that, but if you are going to against advice anyway, please make sure you are safe, i doubt she wants to get pregnant. Although i worry why she is already on birth control? Does it not worry you that she could be having intercourse with someone else?
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