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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Whats with my husband saying the things he says to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

31 January 2018 (F) - I don’t understand why my husband says things that he says example : I tell him I’m running to the store after giving me that yeah right look he says ok. I’m gone 30 min and he texts stuff like. Having fun or what are you killing the cow. Or I kn...

I'm depressed and lonely being married to a controlling husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

30 January 2018 (F) - I’ve been married to my hisband for 5 years. I’m 38 he’s 36. I have not shared a room with him in a year I sleep on the couch he don’t seem to mind until it’s benefits him to throw it in my face. I have chronic illnesses that also exist when he ...

Formerly stingy uncaring husband has suddenly changed. Is it because he will be losing his job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - I have been married for seven years and my husband has been very stingy with me and my kids (his step kids). We hve one child together. I have complained to him of his lack of involvement in his step kids life but he just ignore. Somehow i have ...

Her confession, while turning me on, makes me angry and I feel betrayed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - Where do I start? My wife and I have been married for close to 17 years and have 2 young daughters aged 10 and 8. We are a happy couple are most probably enjoying the best period of our married life. My wife is hot and still looks amazing......

Was it wrong of me to intoduce him to my kids so soon?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2490 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - I started dating my ex husband when I was 15, he was the only guy I dated. We got married shortly after high school and had five kids together. I love him but neither of us were really in love with each other for years but we had kids and we were ...

Is it realistic for my husband to want me to go back to work fulltime?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

24 January 2018 (F) - Okay, so...I became a stay at home mom 3 yrs ago when I was laid off from my O and G project accounting position due to the market. We have 8 and 5 yr old girls, both in school full-time. During this time, my husband also received a layoff and was ...

Its to the point where anything with my family causes problems between my husband and I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

22 January 2018 (F) - So my sister and I have never got on, even when we were kids. Now days we have little to do with one another, we have to get together occasionally because, you know, family, but we never talk, or have a conversation unless i'm being made fun of (I'm ...

He's lusting after young women. What do I get?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - My partner can't get the type of girls he wants because they are well out of his league (model types much younger than us )we're in our forties ) and he spends his times lusting after them in porn. This makes me feel like he is settling for me a...

He's abusive and I need to get out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2495 days ago

21 January 2018 (F) - I'm going through a really difficult period in my life and don't know what to do. How to restart and go on... I'm 41 and have been with my husband for 15 years, no kids. Good times and bad. Well now things have gotten pretty bad. The good times y...

My husband often gives me the silent treatment

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2496 days ago

20 January 2018 (F) - Not sure what to do. Been married for 12 years (2nd marriage for both of us) My husband has generally given me the silent treatment when we have argued however lately he stonewalls me without arguing. every week we drive over to the next town to ...

Thiinking of leaving because husband is so controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

20 January 2018 (F) - Hi I have been married for 25 years. We have had some good times but my husband is very controlling and demeans me. I am not allowed to have any male friends because in his mind it’s wrong and that means I am having sex with them. If I enjoy...

I feel I owe this married man an apology

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts, I met this man sometime in 2015 when i was on a temporal job in another state in the country. He is Married with a son. When we first met, he was attracted to me and we pretty get along so well. He dropped hints about dating me bu...

How do I get my life back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2495 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Husband found out I have been using tumblr for fandom stuff and threatened to smash my phone. He didn't understand what "reblogging" meant and thought that character pictures were actually real dudes. I'm not allowed to talk to "strange people on ...

Does he want me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

19 January 2018 (F) - Hiya sorry if this is long I’ve been with my partner for 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter together we have had a few relationship problems this last few months such as our sex life has been non existent then I find porn on his phone which makes ...

How can I stop thinking about my married coworker ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

18 January 2018 (F) - How can I stop daydreaming about my married co-worker ( we are both in the medical field) and Work in close proximity. I believe we have a mutual attraction- I say this because conversation sometimes has steered to unprofessional chit chat ( we ...

I’m feeling guilty for our breakup!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2496 days ago

17 January 2018 (F) - First of I was married for 7 years I have two boys they r young 3 and 7. I divorced my husband can give a straight reason we just didn’t get along couldn’t work as a team. It was like we where against each other all the time. He was depressed and I ...

Am I an evil step mother?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2499 days ago

14 January 2018 (F) - I am a stepmother who will be inheriting my husband Home instead of his adult child. I want responses on whether * am the evil stepmom everyone fears. Here is my story. My husband was a widower when we married,that was 14 years ago. His daughter ...

We live with his parents they heard us fight and now I'm ashamed to see them

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

13 January 2018 (F) - Hi.. we are asian married couple living with my in laws. We married several months ago and been together for 5 years before. My husband isnt perfect, but he is the most approriate man for me. When we first marry we are so happy and he is protec...

Events of 30 years ago still hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - my husband had an emotional affair with my mom, and this went on for four years, as she died in an auto accident. He claims sure was fun to be with and that all they did was kiss, no sex. #1 how could it last for this long with non sex, # how can ...

Should I confront my soon to be ex husband about his girlfriend from another country?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2505 days ago

8 January 2018 (F) - Been married 18 years and my husband asked for a divorce 9 months ago. We are both still living in the marital home awaiting property settlement in a few weeks time. The situation is very stressful and toxic for me. We both have lawyers ...

He ended it after 15 years and I can't move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - hi my name is carol and upto 3 years ago i was havein an afair it lasted 15years but one day he said he couldet see me any more but never realy said why i was deversteted and still am thort after all them years i desevred better i still miss him and ...

Did my husband realise that he was wrong or was the grass not really greener on the other side?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2506 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I've been married for 8 years and a month or so ago my husband started hiding his phone and staying out all night until the morning. On top of that he was treating me very poorly. I knew there was another girl in the picture. I saw text messages but ...

We met online a week ago and already love each other

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I have been divorced for almost 6 months and have been dating. I met someone online and when we met in person we both felt an instant connection. He has already told me he loves me and I have told him also. It has only been a week. I have never had ...

Help me find a way to get our problems out in the open

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - How do I speak to my partner about things that I'm slacking on? Short backstory, my partner and I have been together for a year and a half, we live together, I am disabled and don't work but can still do most things for myself, and he is pretty...

New girfriend wants marriage .... I don't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

5 January 2018 (M) - Simple situation, I've recently walked out on a 18 year marriage, we've lived apart or part-time for the last 2 years. We have no children, fury babies only. She has the lions share of income and I was not satisfied in our relationship, we simply ...

How do I handle her cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

5 January 2018 (M) - after marriage my wife got pregnant third time. she aborted because she did not want three children. but i wanted. i have doubts about this abortion at that time and i was doubting some one in our family. 2. one day my wife had two red marks on...

Are my husband's conditions unfair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2507 days ago

5 January 2018 (F) - My husband's conditions for our marriage were that I would never talk to men online ever (including my male cousins, childhood friends who were like my brothers and gay male friends), that I would cut off contact with all my male friends in real ...

My new wife sunbathes topless and I've seen other men looking

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

2 January 2018 (M) - We are in honeymoon. My wife did topless tanning in a beach with a lot of people. I dont feel so comfortable with this so I discussed with her. She didnt like it and she told me that I am jealous and that she did it only for tanning. I accepted it ...

My husband just can't stop grilling me about my ex and it's getting out of control now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

2 January 2018 (F) - Hi. I am 26 and just got married. I have known him from my school time. And we dated for 1 year untill we got married. He was always curious to know details about my past relationships. I had a boyfriend before him and it lasted for 3 years. My ...

I resent my stingy husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

1 January 2018 (F) - I am married to a stingy husband and am begining to resent him. We both earn but he totally refuses to contribute towards my loan repayments for our house because its in my name. I had most of the furniture when we got married and a car so we didnt ...