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Love stories: Help and advice

I'm somewhat confused - why did he ask my mother what kind of ring I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Im alittle confused, need some help figuring this out... First off I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, hes 27 and Im 22... Today my mom told me that he asked her what kind of ring I liked...(He didn't want her to tell me but she has a hard ...

I am having a hard time deciding which month to get married...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hello, my name is Ashley I am having a hard time deciding when to get married. I am engaged and in love. I am having a hard time deciding what month to get married. I'm think Between March, April or May. My birthday is in April and his is in Ma...

I'm attracted to my cousin and the thought of someone else being with her drives me crazy! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Im frm India im really attracted to my cousin and have sexual fantasies about her. she is med student in another city , weve rarely met , except for a few family reunions. but the last time we met ( years back) in delhi , it just set up some ...

Her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly. How can I reassure her I will be gentle ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - my gf has been giving me blowjobs in replace for sex since shes not ready but is prefectly fine with that but i know shes afraid because her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly she soon broke up with him and fell for ...

Can someone please help me to untangle my love life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Ahhhh I suck at relationships! It's pissing me off! I'm 19 and I love my ex boyfriend more than anything, and he's in love with me. But he moved away a while back, so we're not together. I don't fancy a long-distance relationship. So that's Guy #1. ...

Improve Image Or Relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months. We love eachother very much and have just finished school, and no, we haven't had sex, and we don't plan to for a very long time. This is my first relationship but this is her third because ...

Will we get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - OK so two days ago my boyfriend broke up with me. He is 2 years younger than me (I'm currently 22 he's turning 21 this December) and we met at school. We have been friends for over two years and one night when he came to visit me something between ...

I was an idiot, but I have changed. Now I want her back !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - Ok, I'm 25 and had lots of girlfriends in the past.. I started dating this girl "Nicole" April of 2007 and we got engaged August of 07 and moved in together.. I love her with all my heart but made dumb mistakes with finances and being irresponsible ...

Should I buy her an engagement ring for Christmas or is it too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I was in a ltr for 7 years and she left for no apparent reason A month later I met (again) a woman I had a crush on when we were teens. we started dating and neither of us were looking for anything it just happened. now a month later we are very muc...

Upgraded husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I received this story from a friend. I found it too funny not to share it with you! :) INSTALLING A HUSBAND Dear Tech Support, Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slowdown in overall system pe...

I plan to propose to my girlfriend - how do you find this scenario?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Hello, I plan on proposing to my girlfriend, she knows i want to marry her as we have talked openly about it, but she dosent know when im going to ask her. she is away at college at the moment and has been begging me for a puppy, so i plan on buy...

A love poem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - aim Eric and this my funny thing, aim 20 years and aim male. Become A Featured Poet! Have you written a poem that should be a Poem of the Day? Click here to submit it! Desire by wrczx3 You've brought out of me these feelings so new My desi...

We can't live with or without eachother...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - i am an 18 year old female and i am pretty much in love with my best friend. he is a year older than me and we have been good friends for about 2 years now. we speak everyday, see eachother almost every other day, and have also tried the whole "more ...

He needs a nick-name. Any suggestions ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend calls me all these nick names and keeps talking about how i don't really have one for him.But I want the nickname for him to be special, maybe having something to do with the first time we met.We met at a campsite and start ...

She has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend however everytime we talk she talks about how she has thought about us being together in the future ! What do I make of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - So ok... In my last question i asked if i should let go of the girl i love with all of my heart right. well here is an update and a new question... she has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend, however everytime we talk she talks about ...

Romeo and Juliet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Several people have asked me, over the recent months, how I got together with the man in my life. I decided to jot this little tale down for the amusement of you all here at DearCupid. It began on one dull Monday morning, when I received a call ...

How do I make a good impression on them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - I am Lauren and I'm 20 years old, my sister and I went to Miami for vacation and to party with our friends, one night I decided to stay and eat in the hotel restaurant which is very elegant and nice, I was eating alone, when this very handsome older ...

After all his cheating and her stalking us, I don't know if I even love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - Hi (Sorry this is so long) I had been with my boyfriend for 18 months and living together when he had an affair. I found a mobile hidden with texts on from another woman in mid September. When it all came out he’d met her at a college reunion ...

How can I come across as shy not rude and deal with his family on Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

14 November 2008 (F) - my bf mum has invited me round for a pre christmas dinner. there is going to be my bf his parents 3 brothers his brother fiancee 2 uncles 1 aunt and his gran. ive met his brothers parents brother fiancee and 1 uncle. my worry is i will freeze up a...

My wife and I move in and out of each others lives and homes. What do I do to make us both happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - Need help! Don't know what to do. I married this woman. We met at college and she chased me. We went out and then married twelve years later. In between I kept moving out or taking jobs away but I always ended up coming back to her and she would ...

Can I love her after just 5 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hello all. So i was hoping someone could answer a question i had that really has no answer. i met this girl about five months ago. her boyfriend ditched her to go 2000 miles away for 6 months and after about two months she got a job at the same ...

How could I make her love me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - How could you make someone you love fall in love with you?Ive been dating this girl but had to be separated from her due to business.I've stayed in touch with her through phone.And i knew that i love her in the two months we stayed apart.Now i'll be ...

Happily married for decades? How'd you know it would work or did you just decide to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I am looking for people who have been happily married for 20+ years on this one. How did you know this was the right person for you? Was it passionate at the beginning or was it respect that grew to admiration that grew to love? ...

I am attracted to another female, but I don't know what to do now, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I am female and attracted to a female coworker. I am straight, and I believe she is too (she recently broke up with a boyfriend), and she has a son from her ex-husband. We seem to have a mutual attraction, but not enough for me to figure this out. ...

How do I know its going to work now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

8 November 2008 (M) - Hello I have been in a 5 year relationship with a man, things have been great, we have had our ups and downs like most couples. i feel like this person is my soul mate, and he has told me that his love for me is deep too. we recently came back ...

I'm in love with my mother's first cousin - and her pantyhose. Will I ever stop loving her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - I am 28 years old currently living in Greece.As of now I'm in a wonderful relationship with this girl that is the same age of me and we are planning on getting married.....but to get to the point I'm also in love with my mother's first cousin(mak...

If it wasn't for her, he'd like me..I know it! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

5 November 2008 (F) - I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... ...

They were each other's 'first'. Is that why she can't leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

5 November 2008 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for a year and a half. We met as co-workers, starting hanging, out and developed feelings for each other. Now we both think of each other as best friends. Now, i love her as a friend and I'm very in love with her.the ...

Does he still love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my treasured and beloved boyfriend for over 2 years now. I've had my share of bad relationships. But none of them turned long term like this one. I am a picky person. Down to the some of the hobbies or interests he should have. ...

Did I make a move forward by calling him on the phone or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I met a guy 2 years ago in a tech event. We became friends that day and since he had to move away after wards, we started keeping in touch by emails once a month. I emailed him and he always replied back. The once a month thing became in a twice a ...

Best friend found a girl, but I love him !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5894 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - So ive known him for many years and ive liked him that entire time and we would flirt but we would deny liking eachother ive told him i liked him a couple of times and his reply would be that he didnt want to ruin our relationship because he ...