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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So ive known him for many years and ive liked him that entire time and we would flirt but we would deny liking eachother ive told him i liked him a couple of times and his reply would be that he didnt want to ruin our relationship because he wanted us to be friends always he found a girl that has liked 7 guys in a time period of a month and a ahalf and hes the type that falls deeply for girls and i dont want to see him hurt when they split. he told me that before he met her he liked me and it ate me up that i could be where she is now. we got into a fight about what my opinion was on her and he was bothered that i worried about him so much. I told him that i was jealous of her and told him that i liked him and his response was that him and the girl were going out (srry this isnt in order) i was crushed but i acted like it didnt hurt and the entire time ive been supportive of the realationship because it isnt that often that he finds someone. but istill wish me and him would see if us together would work out. before he met her all our friends thought we were dating by the way we acted and when wed thell them we werent theyed list all reasons y we should. alot of them think that we were just too scared to take the chance. Now hes been with her for 2 weeks and theyve kissed which may seem small but is a big thing for him. And now that he knows i like him i know that he will hesistate saying things tht he would normally tell me and i dont want him too. some of my friends have said that if i just wait until they break up he will realise that he needs me but i' ve waited years to hear him say that he likes me and when he did he was with her so im mad at my self for not telling him.what should i do to try and get him back only i dont want to interfere with their relationship?
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reader, xxhoplesslyhisxx +, writes (4 November 2008):
im very sorry about this and i know it must hurt. you are a very conciderate friend and i understand were you are coming from. but you shouldnt be mad at yourslelf that you havent sed anything sooner because telling someone that you are very close to you like them is a difficult thing to do. my advice is too let out all your feelings to you friend and sort them out. then decide if you want to talk to him about them. and if you do decide to talk to him tell him that you are not trying to interfere with his relationship just concerned about you friendship. i hope everything works out. please let me know what happens or if you think i could give u some good advice thanks =)
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