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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I'm worried about my erections when I'm with her in person!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship with an amazing and extremely attractive woman. We have spent a number of weeks together in person now in the real world, and I would definitely say we understand each other very well and are very comfortable with ...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

Can we really keep it together if she's gone for two years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Hey guys. I'm in need of some opinions. I've been with my girlfriend for approaching two years now. We have a very loving and healthy relationship. And we are very compatible. We have discussed future marriage and kids and our lives together, in ...

I wonder if he could actually care for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I met someone on holiday five years ago. It was clear we liked the look of each other but nothing ever happened. He found me on facebook somehow when he got home and three years later we were still texting every other week. Last year he asked me...

My family guilted me into getting back in touch with my LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I have a dilemma… I dated a guy very shortly (less than 4 mo.) and he wanted to do a long distance thing but I didn’t like him enough to do so. He just didn’t “get it” so I had to rudely and abruptly cut contact and block him. My mom gave me a lot...

My LDR can see prettier women in porn, so why bother taking it to the next level?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship and we have not yet been sexual in person . Next time we meet we will take it to the next level but in the meantime we enjoy that online but I'm worried about how I can possibly keep my bf interested when he ...

We don't make love anymore, we just have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship as of about a year ago. We have been together for 3 years. The last 3 times we have been together we hardly make love and is more like sex. This past weekend we were together after not seeing each other for 4 ...

Should I ditch my boyfriend of 3 years because he's moving to NYC for a year or two?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My bf of 3yrs is going to NYC for 1yr (maybe 2) He is 25 and I will be 30 this year. At first I was supportive. That he applied to go and got through. Now he is leaving in 2dys and when I think of it I get angry. He expects it will be fine and...

My ex treated me better than this boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I was in a relationship for 9 yrs with my ex boyfriend who I dumped a year ago since the relationship was going no where and there was lot of trouble as it was a long distance relationship. After breaking up I immediately got into another ...

After a year I still don't have my online boyfriend's phone number

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Met a guy online over a year ago, we fell in love, never spoke on phone. It is a LDR and I gave him my number but he never gives me his. Lately, he is busier at work and he says he loves me but I don't know what's going on. Is it normal t...

He was so eager to see me. Then we had sex. Is he now fobbing me off? If yes, then why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I want an honest opinion, please don't judge me. I met a guy on a night out a month ago in a different city. We talked every single day via messaging/phone calls ect. a significant amount. We agreed on a date for him to come and see me at my pla...

Unusually big chemistry - how do I take it from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

24 May 2014 (M) - Hi Friends Background: I know a girl I met for a few weeks nearly 4 years ago when she was in my town. We had an unusual chemistry between us, lots of teasing and flirting. She left and we went out ways pretty much keeping in touch at times on faceb...

She's been away for two months and I'm getting less and less from her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3834 days ago

23 May 2014 (M) - Hello, this is my first post here, so be gentle :) Im (22y) and halfway in March (so more than 2 months by now) my girlfriend (23y) for 1y5m went to the dominican republic to do her internship abroad, she studies tourism and is doing her work as ...

I'm about to serve time in prison, so how do I tell my new interest, and how can the relationship survive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - A few days ago, I met this really great guy and even though it's early, things have been going really great for us so far. Yes, I know it's only been a little over a week, but he's been in most of my thoughts and I'm really confident about our ...

Long distance relationship woes..is it worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - Help! I'm in a long distance relationship, and have been for nearly 2 years. we've not spent much time together in person, 3 days and then 2 days, so just a few days here and there for only a few hours a day. most of the bonding has been online....

I broke up with my LDR b/f because I wanted to date in real life. Should I not done so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for a little less than a year. My ex (feels weird to write that) was in a different country. I was very fond of him, I cared about him, and I know some people wouldn't call it love, but I loved him. I never met ...

I don't know if she isn't interested or just waiting awhile to reply or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

22 May 2014 (M) - Hi guys I just need some basic advice. I met a girl, we got along really well. i visited her city and we spent two days together, although we met just as friends the days were very romantic, it went perfectly and she said they were the best days ...

I said I'd visit my LDR girlfriend, but now I'm not so sure it's a good idea...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

20 May 2014 (M) - Hi everyone I've had a girlfriend for nearly two years now. I love her and during these 2 years it has always been me who put in the majority of the effort. It's long distance which doesn't help, but she sacrificed very little for us whereas I did...

Will spending time apart really help us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating a year and 3 months and we live together. It feels like our relationship is running into the ground. I'm not sure if its because we spend all our time together or what. Our daily routine is he goes to work at ...

I broke off the flirtation because we're both committed to others, but how do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3840 days ago

15 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been on and off in friendship zone with a married guy for over 3 yrs now. He likes me and i like him too. We are very attracted to each other but we can't do anything about it. I haven't seen him for 2 years now coz he moved...

LDR and suddenly he's harder to contact. Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - My bf works for UPS and goes in work at either 3, 4, or 5am and gets off no later than 11. He always text me after he's done which he did today at 10 am "goodmorning sleepy head :)" I text him back about 5 mins later and never got a text back. ...

He and I have a mutual friend who is a girl he once had a crush on. Should I allow what our mutual friend said to so unsettle me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3845 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - I'm in a curious problem and don't really know what to make of it. As it goes, I've been besties with a guy over the internet for nearly four years now. We've spent hours talking to each other about practically everything, fighting, arguing,...

Is he seeing someone else where he lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Ive been told by his mates that hes seeing somone else where he lives. Ive confronted him about it and all he says is no im not I was even told her name which I looked on fb and it says shes in a new relationship, he doesnt have a fb pg so I cant ...

In an LDR for 3 years, we rarely see each other, and have had sex 3 times! She says she loves me but I'm not sure she wants to be with me. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

7 May 2014 (M) - Hello.I am a 31 year old guy and I have been in a relationship with a younger woman for the past 3 years.We live around 100 miles from one another but have kept things going but I rarely ever see her and in those 3 years she has come up to see me ...

Why is she taking birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

6 May 2014 (M) - I'm in a LDR, my girlfriend and I are in different countries due to school and we can see each other every three months or so. she is on the pill. why would a girl be on birth control if she is not supposed to be sexually active?...

Is he right -- am I being selfish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3852 days ago

4 May 2014 (F) - Im in need of some advice, i been with a guy for 7 years and is has been a roll coaster. i feel like he is so selfish and only cares about himself but yet again, he says im selfish. we are in a long distance relationship hes in florida and im in new ...

I sort of want out of this LDR but I just can't get myself to do it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

1 May 2014 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with a guy from another country. We have been talking for over 7 years but only dating for a little less than one. I love this guy. He's charming and a total sweetheart. That said, I am constantly at wa...