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writes:Hello, this is my first post here, so be gentle :)Im (22y) and halfway in March (so more than 2 months by now) my girlfriend (23y) for 1y5m went to the dominican republic to do her internship abroad, she studies tourism and is doing her work as a hostess there for 6 months and a half. Now in the beginning stages we would talk during the whole day, and say a whole lot of sweet things to each other, we would also skype every week. but this gradually faded, now i still say things like, i miss you or i love you, but i hardly get stuff in return, or very briefly.. we still keep in touch every day though. Now i know she is living her dream, she always wanted to do this and i supported her. She tells me she is having so much fun, she even said she doesnt really wants to come back at the moment. Which hurts me alot. i feel like im forgotten here. Now i'm also doing my master thesis at the same time, i feel like im dying with this stress and heartache, normally i'm a really calm person, but now i even have high blood pressure, i know i'm maybe overreacting, but i really could use some advice here to ease my mind. She had some difficulties adapting so i always helped her with advice as much as i could, but now when im having difficulties im not getting help from her, i know she is very busy though..I'll be seeing her again the 4th of june, i booked a flight there for 2 weeks and i cannot wait anymore, the date is getting closer, but it isn't really helping my heartache.. She is my true love and i hope i'm hers
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reader, RevMick  +, writes (23 May 2014):
 Hi Nicholah,Firstly welcome to dearcupid and don't worry don't think anyone here intentionally would be less than gentle when it's deserved.Distance in relationships always takes it's toll, you don't know whether she has met someone abroad, she is just missing home or a lot of other factors.I wouldn't dive right in there with, she's my one. (You're young and so is she). I would take things a step at a time and don't fall too hard before you know what has happened in the meantime.Yes, she may be the one to you or atleast that's how you feel. But, you don't know her heart or how she feels about you. If you jump and it turns out she isn't or doesn't feel the same, you will be more heartbroken than if you kept an open mind.Hope everything goes great with the meet up.
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