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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Is this just an excuse for breaking up? Or what does he mean by his remarks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is ending out relationship because he said he was unhappy and didn't feel like himself. He told me he wants to focus on himself and make himself happy and then he can focus on us . I am confused about focusing on himself part ? I...

Could this long distance guy be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - I'd like some insight into a crush I am visiting in a few months. We live in different countries and only met at a party last year. We just flirted and kissed a bit -- I didn't want to go any further because I was casually dating someone else at the ...

Am I overreacting about him not initiating any text for the last few days ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months over the summer and he had to move 6 hours away (driving) to finish his masters program for one year. Prior to his moving we had spent a month and half 24/7 together. We had gotten very close and decided ...

Please help me stop thinking about this amazing guy I met while on a holiday! I'm in Australia. He's in the USA!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I met a guy while on holidays in the USA. We met in Arizona. We had an amazing one night stand and I never thought I would see him again. He flew back to Illinois and I continued on my trip. We exchanged numbers, he changed his flight t...

How do express my feelings about this LDR? Should I cut him some slack? His actions don't express romantic intentions to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I am in a LDR of two months with a guy in UK. We talk everyday and he professes his love for meeting a woman like me everyday. He wants to be with me and marry me. I am feeling the same as well but I do have to questions compatibility or maybe I'm ...

I found my new wife on an escort website. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - hello everyone please help me. i just got married. i knew her from long time back but we werent keeping contact eachother untll we decided to get married. we are from same country but living in different countries. she lived in singapore and im ...

How can we make our long-distance relationship successful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - He's from the UK, I'm from the US. We've been talking online for 6 years now, been "official" for one. Guess what... I've never met him! I know this sort of relationship is unconventional. A bit weird, and most people don't get it and will never g...

.I don't understand why I should be faithful and invest in a relationship that has unstable future plans

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

25 August 2014 (?) - I have been dating this man for a year and a half and I need a solution to a problem. We are in a long distance relationship an hour and a half drive away.I live in a big city and he lives in a small town. I am willing to relocate to another big ...

I want my boyfriend to forgive and forget

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - i am dating this Boy for Three years now, a long distance relationship and unfortunately we are going down everyday cos i had an affair with a Boy a year ago and My bf found out and obviously was very sad and disappointed in me. But he forgave me ...

My friend is trying to set me up in a LDR but I don't want to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - So my friend is trying to set me up in a long distance relationship. The problem is that im not ready for a relationship and especially not long distance. Im 14. He is really really eager about it and I really do appreciate the effort and the ...

Momma's boy's Momma found my panties!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I recently spent a couple days at his place. He's a bit of a mommas boy so of course his mom goes over to clean his apartment and finds my underwear in his sheets. I'm completely mortified! ...

Am I a coward or courageous? My alcoholic homeless husband abandoned our marriage but blames things on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I live in Minnesota and my husband lives homeless in Boise ID. We have lived apart a total of three years in a marriage of six years due to his drinking. I moved back home to Minnesota two years ago to be near my children Since I moved back I was ...

I really like a girl I've been chatting to online but cant see us ever being able to meet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3778 days ago

17 August 2014 (M) - I met a girl online and we really hit it off. We've been video calling and chatting over skype and text for about two months now and I really like this girl. I'm pretty sure she likes me back, but I'm scared of starting a long distance relationship ...

Why does my LDR girlfriend seem so interested in sex until we are together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

17 August 2014 (M) - Hi everyone I'll keep it as brief as I can. I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. we can see each other every 6 months or so. When we are apart, she talks about sex often, how much she wants it next time w...

I'm living the life of a single person but I'm not single, in a LDR!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The first year and a half was great, then he moved 6 hours away because the company had problems and pulled everyone back to head office. He struggled financailly and I helped him out. I said at the time...

In need of advice on online love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - guys i need answers wel, met a guy from another continent online.am frm africa n he is frm canada. i feel i really like him thou at first we were just chat buddies,but after texting back n forth i developed feelings for him. he tells me he like...

What does it mean if my gf gets horny for me when I'm not around, but not so much when I am around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) - We're in a long distance relationship and get together a few days each month. The week leading up to our visit, she'll express how turned on she is for me and can't wait to mess around. But when we do see each other in person, her hornyness is not ...

I am not sure how to make this long distance relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - I'm from the US, in a relationship with a guy from the UK. I really do love this man and if things keep going well, I actually feel like I would be willing to make a huge sacrifice (which includes leaving my mother, father, etc and everything I know ...

How do we sustain our LDR and make it a less painful experience to be apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - I need some advice from people that have been through something similar with a long distance relationship. Firstly I want to make it clear, I am very very happy and content with my boyfriend, I am truly in love for the first time in my life and I...

How do I cope being alone and pregnant while my husband is in another country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3773 days ago

14 August 2014 (F) - Anyone who is pregnant and alone without their baby daddy close by. Hubby is in another country and will only be back after the birth. How are you guys coping? Am 36 weeks and I feel so lonely and alone. At times I sit up in the night imagining he ...

Should I keep talking to him knowing we'll never meet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - Heya Well i signed up to a dating site, honstly just thought id have a nose and see what it was all about... I wasnt expecting anything to come from it. I noticed a boy viewed me (that was pretty hot lol) so i messaged him... Hes from ireland ...

Leaving for college -- should we break up or try to make a LDR work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F) - I leave for college tomorrow and I need help on what to do with my relationship. We love each other, a hell of a lot. But we're going to different colleges, he's going to college in the city and I'm going 3 hours away...my thing is I want to be with ...

LDR--Is it selfish of me to want him to move to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Jake for a little over 3 years now. I just turned 22 and he is 21. Recently I transferred to a great music school about in Boston 9 hours away from my home town where he is attending school. I went ...

I love the girl, but not the relationship. what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

10 August 2014 (M) - Hi everyone Firstly, I just want to say. Constructive advice only. I know lots of people on here like to give hard hitting "advice" however really that will not help me. I love my girlfriend very much, and she loves me. It is long distance an...

LDR--havent been together in almost a year and I'm wondering if he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - Hello I'll try to make this short. Im in a long distance relationship and its been almost a year since we seen each other.we talk or Skype everyday and he helps me out financially, not that I need him to he just offers, I have never asked for ...

Not enough attention from long-distance girlfriend. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

8 August 2014 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and will see her in 15 days. After 6 months we'll have to be long distance for 3 months again. This time, we're long distance for 1 month. I'm having an issue because it doesn't seem li...

How do I cope? My fiance has told me she's coming to see me to break things off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

6 August 2014 (M) - My fiance of four and a half years has told me that she wants to end things. Shed coming to see me in a few weeks to end it in person. her reasons are that she says her feelings have changed and that she no longer gets excited wen she sees me and t...

Guy on internet dating website hasn't written in a week, and only checks in when I write him, WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - I started corresponding with this guy on Okcupid about three years ago. We wrote to each other long, thoughtful messages and almost went out on a date, but I'd started hitting it off with another guy and eventually dated this other guy for two ...

How does a man relocating to you start over with no problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - I met a good man. He is 35 and I am 33yes old. I have a great job and social life. He has an ok job with the metro system in the UK. He has a 2yr old daughter and I have none. I am ready to settle and he is ready to settle down. We have started ...

He won't sex chat with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

5 August 2014 (F) - Hey guys I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 24 and we're in long destines relationship It's really hard to meet and i might meet him after 6 months or more I never had sex before but he did anyway before 2 days i was talking about chat sex and he re...

It's like I can't live without her texting me! Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3792 days ago

4 August 2014 (M) - my best and are together for an year now. we dont live in same city so only had met like 2 times and mostly chat over the phone. it is really great and she made clear from the first day that she only likes me as a friend and doesnt want any ...

His foot fetish makes me feel like he doesn't fancy me enough to maintain an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

4 August 2014 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles! I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for about 3 months (I've known him for a year)....we see each other at weekends and sometimes through the week if we both have time off work... Things are goin...