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writes:Hey guysI'm 19 and my boyfriend is 24 and we're in long destines relationshipIt's really hard to meet and i might meet him after 6 months or more I never had sex before but he did anyway before 2 days i was talking about chat sex and he refuses it and i was really hurt because i cant be with him or anyone else and not even chat sex i feel like i'm the guy in the relationship cause i really feel lonely , what should i do !? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (5 August 2014):
 You can't make him do anything. If he doesn't want to have a sex chat session with you then perhaps you should leave it at that. Maybe he doesn't want to see you in a different light than he does now and maybe he has too much respect for you. I think what you need to do is decide whether this small issue, combined with the distance is enough for you to throw away your relationship over. If you decide to stay then learn to move pass this issue. If not, then realize that the grass isn't always greener elsewhere and what you left may in a lot of ways be much better than what you may walk into. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2014): Your boyfriend sees a difference between love and sex. You should be happy he wants a deeper connection with you. Your demand for sex chat suggests that you cannot distinguish between love and lust.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (5 August 2014):
 If you feel that chat sex is vital when you are in a long distance relationship then its obvious this guy isn't going to fulfil your needs. And its not his fault, and you shouldn't take it personally. Not everyone is into cyber sex, some people find it uncomfortable and sometimes even creepy. So now you are in a dilemma. You can either remain in this long distance relationship without the cyber sex, or you can find someone else who is willing to have cyber sex with you. Those are your choices pretty much. Good Luck x
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 August 2014):
 Why can't you be with anyone else?
If all you want is sex chat, there are millions of men waiting in chat rooms for women willing to do that.
You can't force him into something he doesn't want to do. Respect his boundaries.
Have you ever met him in person?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 August 2014):
 Perhaps you should redefine your needs for sex chat. There is NO requirement that anyoe should sex chat(whatever that means) it sounds like you might be scaring him away.
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