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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I am bi-sexual, but worried my family won't accept me for who I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Okay my question is what should I do about this? I am bisexual and I have told my good/ close friends and they accept me for who i am. I want to come out to my parents but my dad sometimes makes gay jokes he doesn't do it anymore so that's good. ...

What to do? I waited too long to express my feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Maybe it started when I met her. At first glance, I thought she was beautiful. Gorgeous curly ebony hair and chocolate brown eyes. She's sweet and she's kind. She's an artist, like me, but takes to digital style like a pro. I think I'm in love with ...

Toys for a lesbian couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - what toy is best for a lesbian couple?...

We kissed but have ignored talking about it since it happened

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hello I recently invited my lesbian coworker to my house to drink some wine. She knows that I am bisexual. Anyways, we started listning to music and we ended up kissing. Ever since our kiss that night we have ignored the kiss. We dont talk about it. ...

Am I playing with fire and should just back off entirely and shut that door and keep looking even tho we are crazy compatible in some ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - So I met this girl online On ok Cupid ( im a lezzy) and after talking for quite a while we agreed to just be friends because she was still getting over her ex from a year ago and i didnt think we would be as compatible. We have met up three times ...

After doing sexual acts with a guy I feel guilty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - Im a guy and im bi. I have a boyfriend. We kiss and and perform acts of intemacy. But after we do all that I feel,so much guilt. I know I should not,be doing what,i am doing because thats how I was raised. ...

Should I tell my mother that I have a boyfriend? I'm not sure she can handle the truth without flipping out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - I am bi sexual and I have a boyfriend. My parents dont know. I don't know if I should tell my parents, because my mother flipped out when my sister told hert she was bi-sexual i dont know what to do....

Be gay, if it's who you are...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - Something that continues to grate on my nerves is the hatred I see directed at gays. People, in general, tend to support individualism...encourage to be yourselves. But, unfortunately, they often have a limit to that support. When it comes to ...

Might I be bisexual and should I tell my fiance about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I've been with my fiance for two years now, and I really love him. Lately I've been attracted to this woman at work. I've dated women in the past, but always thought it was just a phase i was going through. I still find myself checking out othe...

Can I believe my boyfriend when he says he is not gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - My bf looked at transvestites online in the past.I asked him openly if he was bi and he said no.I said that i don't care what he did before me, and that if he tried something i would understand him 100%.That we all have the right to have fantasies, ...

My gf is upset after we have sex, she told me she was abused. Any Advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - I have been seing a girl for about 6 months now, I am also a girl. We have just started sleeping together and i noticed that she always seemed a bit off after. She eventually told me that she was abused as a young child, she didnt tell me who it w...

I think my boyfriend's in denial of being bisexual and won't admit it for fear of me telling his family & friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - Hi Cupid, I am a 46 year old heterosexual female and have been in a relationship with a man for 2years. I recently found some gay porn and photo's of young boys having sex on his computer. When I confronted him about this he denied it straight away, ...

My brother and I are both gay but how do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 December 2011 (M) - hey, so it's not really like a conflict, but my brother and I both happen to be gay. I'm in high school and he's in college, and just this last time he came home to visit with his gay (platonic) friend. Three of us went on a car ride and eventually ...

If he loved me he wouldn't be thinking of sleeping with others, would he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

19 December 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I've been with my partner for around 9 months, and in more or less everyway, we have a really strong friendship and relationship. He has had some pretty big fears of commitment, but has been really open and hardworking abou...

I'm afraid my ex's gay relationship will confuse our 6 year old!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

18 December 2011 (M) - long made short, wife cheated with a women, thinks she's gay and we have two kids. (update) she has a friend a women that visits her a lot around the kids. my oldest like the women a lot. the women gives my oldest child little gifts question...

Was this coincidence? Or did my ex really put a curse on me? She said she did and then after I had a vehicle accident. Is she that powerful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - I was just involved in a vehicle collision tonight. I'm okay but my car had to be towed away for repairs. The other driver was okay and only had a few scratches to the car. Last night my lesbian girlfriend wished evil on me after we broke up. She...

Too scared to see a doctor. No male/female connection. no chance of being pregnant. But why no period?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - I really need some peace of mind in this and I have been worrying about this for too long. Basically, I've not been on me period for almost 3 months now yet there is no way I can be pregnant as I'm in a relationship with a woman. Its really bot...

I have sexual feelings for men as well as women, am I bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

14 December 2011 (M) - I am 18 and have always had some sexual feelings towards men as well as women. I assumed everybody goes through this as a teenager, although the feelings are still there. I am sure I will be marrying a woman eventually as my feeling for females is ...

I broke up with my Girlfriend and I know she's confused. Should I just let this go and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - i was with my girlfriend for two years, and she broke up with me for someone else in june. since then, though, we remained friends, but it eventually led to her telling me she still had feelings for me. it's been a roller coaster ride ever since. ...

Should I just forget what happened? Or confront him and risk the consequences?

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13 December 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I posted a question last year regarding the very same problem that I still have now. I was grateful for the extremely useful advice I received and certainly took it on board. To recap, for the past two years I have gradually fallen...

My bisexual/lesbian friend dislikes gay men!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

12 December 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, My best friend is a female bisexual and she's great, but I have one problem and its the fact that she hates gay men. I'm so fed up with her double standards its drives me up the walls. Sometimes she calls them names like F****t and ...

Can a gay guy fall for a woman? He's my flatmate and we are really good friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Hi there. I have a problem right now. Recently I moved in a flat sharing with more people and after 5 months living here I have a question about my flatmate. We have become like soulmates, we spend 24 hours together and we love it, it is just happ...

I have a feeling that my bf is gay! Appreciate your thoughts...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are finally dating after knowing each other for 8 years. We had a bit of a blurred relationship in the past where we were having sex but not officially together. We were both to blame. He says it was due to his social anxiety ...

Met a new friend but she hasn't phoned me should I pursue things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - im a gay woman in my 30s who has a g.friend but am looking to make friends who are also gay in my area of hampshire. thing is tho how? also one of my mates who is gay took me to her friends flat who is gay and we got on well, her mate walked m...

What should I say if she calls? title Lesbian LDR of 5 years.. Has she moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4755 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - I flew interstate at the end of August. A and I had been doing bad for some time and it had been 8 months since we saw each other last. In fact during those 8 months we had a break up that lasted 2 months. A came here for Christmas and stayed for ...

What should I do as I am bi and I do feel as if I was the reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - It has been hard for me this year. My first boyfriend turned out to be gay and he says that I was the reason for him turning gay. What should I do as I am bi and I do feel as if i was the reason?...

My crush is dating a female version of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

7 December 2011 (M) - I have known my best friend/crush for years. About 4 months ago he broke up with his girlfriend of two years. I was going to let him get over her and then ask him out. I never got the chance. The next time I saw him he told me he had a new ...

How to tell if a person is gay

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - hi my friend is a lesbian and i am not sure whether i am but how do you tell if someone else is one?...