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reader, taznat  +, writes (26 February 2012):
I feel the same way but I fancy my lesbian PE teacher but I don't no wheather I'm lesbian or not, I say to people I'd do anything to be with her which I would I'd give up my life for her but you can usualy tell if they have short hair or short finger nails. Only on some girly lesbians they do act a bit girly. You live once do what you can with boys and girls ;) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): Impossible to tell. The only way you'll know is if they tell you. BTW you shouldn't care about who's gay and who's not. It's their business. Really.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 December 2011):
 you have to ask them.... they don't wear signs....
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reader, Krislis +, writes (7 December 2011):
That is hard to tell, but you can tell in the way they are acting. Les girls will be strange around other girls maybe being more physical then a normal friend. If you want to find out wether or not you are one, take a year to just be yourself, dont look for a lover just try and act yourself and you will find out. Remember you are young and may not be able to tell now so forget about what gender your attracted to and just dont question yourself.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 You can't just simply tell if someone is gay or not. Sometimes that person may not know themselves. At your age (13 - 15) it is quite common for people to wonder about the same sex and want to experiment or see who they really are. But unless someone tells you that they are gay there is no real way of knowing am afraid.
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reader, Purple Pillow Power  +, writes (6 December 2011):
 you can never tell but time will be the only one with this information. sorry i watched lord of the rings earlier... anyway at your age its natuarlly to 'like' the other side. its experementing. sometimes you find the the same sex just always looks more attractive and sometimes...meh you'ed rather stick to guys+girls but really its all just a waiting game. enjoy life and experement all you like. ya never know, ya might be both ;)
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