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writes:Maybe it started when I met her. At first glance, I thought she was beautiful. Gorgeous curly ebony hair and chocolate brown eyes. She's sweet and she's kind. She's an artist, like me, but takes to digital style like a pro. I think I'm in love with her, but I'm not very sure. I've wanted to tell her for so long, but every time I get the chance to tell her, I chicken out. Now it's too late. She's in a new relationship now- and with a girl far more talented than I. She told me once, a day or two after she began dating the other girl that she fancied me, but I don't know if she was joking or not. Now what I've been doing was trying to love her but not date her- to support her and help her, to care for her, to be there for her when she needs it most. But it still hurts me, because she doesn't know. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, Usagi!
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reader, Usagi  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 i know how you feel... excactly the same thing has happened to me too. i think you should let her know, bacause if you are really in love with her you cannot just be around to support her etc. if she doesnt know. believe me... try telling her, it might turn out in something great. and if it doesnt she will probably still be friends with you. and if she is a decent person she won't say/do stuff that might hurt your feelings. dont make the same mistake i made...(of course i wasn't in love with a normal girl, mine was a walking personality disorder girl)
good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, Tisha! You've been a great help :o)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (31 December 2011):
 "Hey, girl, if you ever become single again, let me know.... I missed my chance earlier but I will take it again if I get the opportunity. You're a great friend and I care for you a lot. Just file that away in your memory banks and pull it up when needed. And that's all I'm going to say about THAT."
Definitely don't push to get too close to someone in a relationship, that's just tacky. Be her friend, if you can stand it, and maybe you'll get a second chance. If that comes, be brave.
Good luck.
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