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Archived questions from: May, 2019 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

What happened to keeping in touch and friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

27 May 2019 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-understand-the-change-in-his-behaviour.html Here’s the question that I asked and I followed the advice and didn’t contact him again . After a week or so, I just sent a very friendly text on his story on Ins...

Are there any laws on verbal abuse?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

26 May 2019 (F) - Hello there, What is your view on verbal abuse? I was having a drink with a kinda newish 'friend' (a friend of my estranged brothers - who are both violent narcissists but no-one knows my past with them) and he suddenly turned the subject into...

Something is not right in this relationship with my older boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

25 May 2019 (F) - Hi aunt's. I recently came back from a 3 month vacation and have been indoors and kind of claustrophobic. I live with my current bf and we've been together for a little over a year now. I saw him dressing up today and asked him where he was going ...

He wants us to go back to "friends" after being so keen to start with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

24 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months, initially he was so keen and was talking about our future, plans, and meeting friends/family, but this has completely changed recently! He knew from the start that my father had cancer, which he...

Is it weird that I want to get to know my older tutor better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

23 May 2019 (F) - I feel as though this question may seem weird because I have been thinking it sounds weird or just not right or that i shoudnt be feeling what I do . I recently decided to do a 3 week comedy course and its ended now and I really enjoyed it . it ...

My girlfriend cant see my point of view and issued an ultimatum

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

23 May 2019 (M) - I'm in a bit of a dilemma as I've just started a relationship with a girl who I really thought was the one. We've been going out for about four months now and I really do love her and she loves me. She's just been on a massive rant to me today ...

Isn’t it unfair for my life-long friend to put our relationship on hold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1400 days ago

22 May 2019 (M) - I have a question that has been bothering me. We are both 26. I have a childhood friend whom I went to school with. We have spent everyday day of our lives together, and as life is coming to a crucial stage (soon we will be with kids, lifes change, ...

I have overwhelming urges to kiss my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

20 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been best friends with my friend for 3 years now and we spend a lot of time together but recently I’ve started getting overwhelming urges that I want to kiss her. She’s never indicated she feels the same way as we are both girls but I can’t see ...

I don't know how to deal with people who ignore other's worries while making theirs sound worse than they are

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

19 May 2019 (F) - How do you all deal with people who like to make a mountain out of their molehill and when they encounter people who have actually overcome a mountain they act uncomfortable or belittle that person's experience? It's so upsetting to have a serious ...

My best friend says he's in love with me after his break up but I don't feel the same way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2013 days ago

17 May 2019 (F) - My best friend has recently been dumped by his girlfriend of three years, this is the first time he’s been single his entire since he was 16 and was naturally cut up about it. However after about a week he’s told me that he doesn’t care any more ...

What would you do with a partner like mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

16 May 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve been with my partner now for 5 years and I honestly don’t know how I have put up with it for so long he puts everyone before me if someone rings him to do summat such as painting or anything like that he’s there I ask him he does it months ...

Did I lose a friend? I'm feeling sad and hurt

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

13 May 2019 (F) - I know this is long, but I hope someone takes the time, I really need some advise. I am a 48 year old single mom. I work a lot and don’t have much of a social life, but I do have a few good friends and I get out when I can. Since one of my children ...

Seeking advice for a first time crush on a trans man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1568 days ago

13 May 2019 (F) - I am a single heterosexual cis female. I've recently started spending a lot of social time with a 24yr old transitioning man (ftm), and have suprised myself by developing a crush. He and I aren't super close, and to be honest if nothing else the...

Does this mean he is into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1972 days ago

12 May 2019 (F) - Hello and thank you A bit of background. I knew this persons brother and his brother passed away recently. It was a difficult time for both of us. We talked alot . Lately hes been asking so many questions. Also, saying in a caring , underst...

He hasn’t told a soul about his relationship with me and it bothers me. It’s all about respect, or is it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

11 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been seeing this guy for about 9 months off and on. We’ve hooked up a few times. I don’t want anything serious because I’m going through a divorce (been legally separated for 2 years). Anyway, I’d kind of describe our relationship as slightly ...

He says he loves me but has a girlfriend. How do I get her out of the picture?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2020 days ago

10 May 2019 (F) - I’ve been dating a friend that I have known for over 30 years. Only thing is that he has a girlfriend. He has been with her since August 2016. My husband passed away in 2017 early and he has been there for me. We started seeing each other in Late ...

I like him, his friend likes me and indicates to him that I prefer the friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

8 May 2019 (F) - I met him at his place of work and boom, big time crush. He feels the same way too. We were still in the initial stages of attraction.. Not talking too much.. Just staring at each other. Then his house mate who is always around just out smarted him ...

I want to hear from you - especially the male ‘aunts’ - if you think he likes me?!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1908 days ago

7 May 2019 (F) - I'm really confused and need your help. Sorry, buckle in... it's gonna be a bit long but the details are important. I promise. I started University in August, and my major is really small. There's this really shy/quiet guy in my major, so he's e...

I’m struggling to balance my feelings for him with my care for my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1995 days ago

6 May 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in high school and i am struggling with this person that I have feelings for. We are just friends and lost our close friendship not long after I told him that i had feelings for him thinking it would make me feel more relieved...

My guy friends always wind up having feelings for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

6 May 2019 (F) - I've always enjoyed having guy friends more than girl friends, and i always have to deal with the exact same problem, which is, him ending up having feelings for me. I always try to avoid those situations by acting more casual and not giving them ...

My friend lead me on, flirted a lot with me.. then ditched me for another girl forgetting that I existed. I feel hurt and embarrassed, help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

4 May 2019 (F) - So I'm 25 and I've been friends with this guy for about a year, he's in my friendship group and he previously had a girlfriend, nothing ever happened between us and previously i always just saw him as a friend. Anyway he broke up with his girlfriend ...