A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met him at his place of work and boom, big time crush. He feels the same way too. We were still in the initial stages of attraction.. Not talking too much.. Just staring at each other. Then his house mate who is always around just out smarted him and befriended me... And him being an open book told me his attracted to me. I told him I was not interested but we can just remain friends.I have made a few mistakes by going to visit the more charming on at there house (with hopes of atleast seeing the one I like).. And the one like I could tell did not like it.. He just left us in the house..I have been trying my best to show the one I like that I am not interested in his friend... But the one I don't like has kinda of made it known that I am his behind my back.. And his friend is respecting that.. The one I don't like has also accused me of liking his friend.. Which I have denied... The problem they are always together.. Stay together.. Is it too late for me to date the one I am really attracted to?
View related questions:
crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (10 May 2019):
 "Listen so and so your a nice guy and all but I really like Blah and Im going to ask him out". Your in your 30's, stop fucking about and go get what you want
A
female
reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 May 2019):
 Yes, I think so.
Honestly, trying to date a coworker is rarely a good move. Trying to use his room mate to get closer to him, not a great move either. It makes you seem opportunistic, if I may be honest. How is the #2 guy supposed to know that you only wanted to hang out to get to see #1?
My advice? Leave these two immature dudes to whatever little thing they got going on. #1 is not going to go out with you if #2 is interested and if YOU keep talking and spending time with #2.
Back away from both. Keep your work place DATE free.
If you are looking to date, socialize OUTSIDE of work with people you DO NOT work with.
And sorry, if #1 had been more interested he wouldn't just have been staring at you. He would have asked you out or YOU should have asked HIM out instead of buttering up the room mate.
...............................
|
