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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I’ve been best friends with my friend for 3 years now and we spend a lot of time together but recently I’ve started getting overwhelming urges that I want to kiss her. She’s never indicated she feels the same way as we are both girls but I can’t see to get it to go away. I don’t want to date her cause she is very hardwork. She’s started talking to a guy who’s asked her out but she’s not sure what to do cause it’s only been two weeks and she’s not even met him yet. She’s asking me for advice and I’m so so conflicted. Would a break help things?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 May 2019):
 No, just no.
Get a grip.
She seems like she is straight and looking to DATE a man so you deciding that maybe planting a kiss on her will magically change her sexual preference or how she sees you (as a friend) - it's unrealistic. And you are OLD enough to know better.
Giving her BAD ADVICE about this new dude because YOU are interested... it's pretty calculated, don't you think?
You want to find someone to kiss? GO forth, start dating, find yourself a partner who WANTS to kiss you as much as YOU want to kiss her.
Do you want to keep this friendship? If so, (and if it's still possible with your little crush) then maybe pull back a little and FOCUS on your own life and finding YOURSELF a partner that suits you.
Thing will 100% be AWKWARD AF if you go and kiss her.
Of that I have no doubt.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2019): You are filling in the time by thinking of kissing her but she has you designated as her official confidante.
Perhaps you think a kiss may surprise her and take her mind off her wearisome problems but her reaction may not be one that you want.
I would definately give your friendship a break and try to associate with like minded people.
A kiss may just make things worse and you dont need to land yourself in hot water.
She most likely is a self absorbed drama queen and wants only your advice not your kisses.
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