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writes: I really need help, there's this lad I like who I work with but he's just spilt up with his girlfriend today. He told me he liked me a few weeks ago but I never told him that I liked him too. Is it too soon after finishing with his girlfriend to tell him?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 November 2009):
Essy there. This is too soon. You need to give him time to get over her and clear his head. He'll need a few weeks, possibly more. In the meantime, just be a good friend. You don't want to just be a rebound to him, so give him time.
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reader, pancakes rule +, writes (9 November 2009):
depends on what terms the relationship ended on. If he's upset, then wait a while, if he wasn't in love with his gf and is relieved that the relationship is over, then don't do it straight away, wait a day or two then tell him.
good luck
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