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writes:Alright.. I'm 13 and I've known my neighbor who is the same age as me scence I was 2. I've liked him ever scence I was like 10... I think i might be in love with him now because he's seen me thro the the good the bad and the ugly... He's been with me when I totally melt down or when I'm like the happiest person alive! He's like one of my best friends and I don't want to make things weird by asking him out... He also almost always tells me who he thinks is hot or who he likes and he's never mentioned anything about me... Hes started flirting with me alot but one of my friends said he was flirting with her too. I don't know of she's lying so I don't get a bf or what (she already has one and she's done that to me before).I think I really am in love with him and I have no idea what to do! Help
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reader, Tatumokeef  +, writes (9 November 2009):
 Not to be mean, but you have a lot of learning to do about love. You are very young and haven't been exposed to a variety of different people, boys. You have your whole life ahead of you to experience new people and new relationships.Perhaps I could be wrong and this could be the love of you life. The first thing you want to do is approach him with your feelings towards him. Tell him exactly how you feel about him. Don't tell him you love him. Maybe hes not catching on to the fact that you like and thinks of you as just a friend. He might like back the same, but you'll never know until you tell him how you feel.
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reader, meggafritz  +, writes (9 November 2009):
 Hey!
Im a couple years older then you, but I have a lot of expirience in this situation! :)
One of my best friends is s guy, and Ive been through this with him A LOT.
Sometimes, guys tend to flirt with other girls without noticing it.
As girls to do...
So maybe, he might not be noticing that he's flirting with you.
Sometimes, they do it on purpose because its hormones, if you want to know the truth...
My guy friend did this a lot, he'd flirt with me, he'd go skiing with me, and we'd do tons of stuff together, and during this time, he'd flirt.
Then I'd invited a friend over, and he'd flirt with her A LOT. Since I liked my guy friend, I'd get mad at her. and it would always be a big thing.
If you want my advice, I'd have to tell you not to bother with your friendship :(
1. If you break up, it could ruin your friendship, and that really sucks.
2. If you wait, and he actually doesn't like you, he'll realize in a few years what your realizing now, and you'll end up dating, getting married ETC...
3. If you wait, you'll have more expirience with boys and you'll be able to substaine a better realtionship! :D
Your still young sweety, good luck :)
(Im young too, LOL!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): Ah, you're 13. Honestly, any feelings of love you have now will change by the time you're older! Maybe it's better keeping it friendly? Because a friendship that is that long is worth keeping, and you could potentially ruin it by trying something more serious, especially at such a young age.
If you still feel the same way when you're older, then go for it. Don't throw away a life-long friendship though for a wee teenage fling when you really don't know your own head at all.
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