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writes:I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch I'll be 33 years of age by the time catch him and I don't feel I can.I got rejected and I lost 2 years as well, as well as grades. Now it's too late, he is away ahead of me and he's the same as me. I feel intimated by him that was 4 years ago.He also has a new girlfriend and new car and he really doesn't care at all. He lives in that he is also thick skinned he didn't care about my feelings at all.Now what do I do? I lost out grades by 4 1/2 years ahead and still feel the affects of rejection because he hurt me. I don't know if I can cope with it. Hes up himself as well.He is a city guy and I am from the country life style I suppose that makes no difference does it.can some one help me. I feel that people like him will always and forever have it good and I'll always get nothing but pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): It happened years ago, he probably doesn't even realise he hurt you, come on he was drunk! Just move on
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 just becoz some guy rejects you doesnt mean u have to let this one incident ruin your life.
some guys are jerks and its something u have to get over and move on with your life.
you need to start feeling alittle better about yourself by forgetting him slowly
-take up a new hobby or do something new.
u have to do something what makes u happy else u will get depressed by all this.
dont compare yourself to anyone either. he may have had an easier life than u, but it doesnt mean he is better person.
try and focus on the good things in ur life, remember life is too short, and forget about him, its the best thing u can do for yourself!
good luck
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 I know how painful it is to be rejected. You need to stop setting yourself up for rejection as you are hurting yourself over and over. Is there something in your pass where you were rejected. I speak from my own experience. I have down the same and looking back on it I realised how pathetic I made my self look.
Stay away from this guy. He clearly is not interested. Have pride in yourself. The more you keep hoping for him the less likely you will open up to meet someone else. You must me giving off something that made this guy reject you. I dont know you but men can pick up on desperation and women with baggage.
You may find it useful to speak to a counsellor maybe on the phone or face to face as you do not want this happening in future relationships.
I know its hard to hear the truth but one day you will thank me.
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