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writes:Okay, so my friend is SO annoying! She was so nice last year, and now she acts like shes trying to fit in.-she acts like she knows everybody and that shes everybodys friend. and lots of the people she talks to dont even like/talk about her.-she takes EVERYTHING seriously. i mean, me and my friends cant even joke around without her rolling her eyes, threatening to not be our friends, start crying, or not talk to us. she takes everything WAY too seriously.-she copies everyone. she says she likes to be original, and she copies the way people talk and type, etc. -she tries WAYYY too hard at trying to be cute and fitting in. she says stuff in this annoying ""cute"" squeaky voice so everyone will notice what shes saying. -she tries to get SO much attention! like, she says something, and i respond and im like "oh im sorry can i help?" her: "no i dont want to talk about it at all cause it hurts:(" me: " oh okay"her:" but its bothering me sooo much!!!!!!!!!"and it continues on and on. its stupid and pathetic how she exxagerates and lies to get attention too.-she doesnt listen to me ever, and she bails on me! i say something, and shes like yeah im listening. and then i continue talking and then shes like huh? and im like, wtf. and if i ask her to go somewhere, shes like yeah i can come! but then she bails on me.everything is like a personal attack on her too. but yeahso i guess my question is, how can i tell her that i dont really wannabe a close friend, but i stillwant things to be cool between us?thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): she doesnt sound like a good friend.if i were you id say to her `hey if you want to be friends with me then behave like a real friend cos at the moment youre behaving terribly.you bail out on me and youre obsessive about everything.` i did this to one of my best friends and shes so much nicer now all because she didnt realise she was being so silly! just talk to her about how you feel and if she continues to behave like a bad friend then just say `look we arent working out as friends.sorry.bye` itll be hard but worth it in the end because then you will either make a really good friend out of her or lose a bad friend.
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