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Was he ok with me? Or just being funny?

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Question - (20 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi i posted something on here a while ago with regards to a guy i've known since primary school all through high school, and now i still hang out with him and the random moments we have flirting and always having heart to hearts and at a BBQ we hugged and he was kissing my neck,he's also said he thinks i'd be a great mum and i'm part of his past and i'll be part of his future i asked why? he said because i won't get rid of him just some background information so you get the gist of it. He's also said his mum wishes he could get someone like me etc.

anyways haven't spoken to him much since then because he's hardly on facebook and he doesn't ALWAYS hang out with us due to lack of money.

anyways went to the cinema yesterday i really wanted to talk to him about the situation.

well yesterday as i've said we went to the cinema but i didn't know he was going until my friend turned up to pick me up and she said he was in the car i nearly DIED! because i'm quite a shy girl anyways i got in so we were in the back together he said hey and stuff that was that anyways i was talking to my friend whom was driving because she was asking me stuff and when i said things he'd laugh like obviously they were meant to be funny things i told my friend to wind up her window because my hair was blowing everywhere so on and he giggled with me, which was nice.

anyways we didn't speak much in my friends car we just listened to music and me being me danced to a song lol hard in a car i know.

he kept looking at me every now and again but made it suttle so i did the same anyways i looked him square in the eyes i was like how come your not saying much?

he said i've not really got anything interesting to say i was like oh ok.

and then he said he was really looking forward to seeing Harry Potter i was like aw bless you :) i can't wait either.

that was that.

i really wanted to say something but because my friends were in the car i didn't bearing in mind his brother was there as he goes out with my friend so bit awkward.

but from what happened there do you think he's actually ok with me?

i mean i really do like him and it's driving me insane!

we're all going camping soon and he's going i'm just seeing how things pan out whether anything happens there but what do you guys think?

thank you :)

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A female reader, Chelle.x United Kingdom +, writes (18 September 2009):

Chelle.x agony auntOhh goood. Im glad it all worked out for you ! (:

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

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well Chelle! my friend talked to him Sunday morning (early hours) about me saying that she thinks i like him and he said really? she said yeah what do you think and don't feel obligated to say anything (meaning don't say it if you don't mean it) he said i'm a wicked girl got a wicked personality really fun to be around and he can see him being with me in the future.

not right now as he has problems with his ex and is trying to help her back on track which is cool i understand that.

so yeah!

that's the update :)

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A female reader, Chelle.x United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2009):

Chelle.x agony auntNo Need 2 thank me babes, its what im here for :D

Goood, Writing letters are better than talking sometimes because at times what we cant put in to words we can write down lol. I Hope it all works out tho for real b x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

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thanks chelle :)

i've written a letter to try and explain how i feel but i feel i need to do it in person i don't know why because i am really shy like.

but i guess i wrote it to see if i could actually come up with my explanation.

i'll try and update ya :) thanks sugar

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A female reader, Chelle.x United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2009):

Chelle.x agony auntBy the sounds of it, he sounds like everything is fine.

When you go camping why don't you grab him to one side and jus explain how you feel ? Jus say like "im kinda confused about the whole BBQ thing and jus wondered how you felt because you haven't said anything about it since and I haven't really had much time to talk to you about it. Jus let him know how you feel and see what happens from there.

Hope it all goes good babes.

Let me know how it goes (:

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