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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Flirting category)

Flirting: Help and advice

So tired of it, what now? I feel rejected again. We met, and then we were texting a lot. Now he is not replying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Hi! Just need some advice on not stressing out too much... I met this guy a week ago, last friday. We were at a party and kissed on the night and he was SO nice. He asked for my number and texted me the day after and told me how nice it was ...

Does she like me romantically or just see me as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2732 days ago

25 May 2017 (M) - Not entirely sure with this, I'd like to think she likes me but I really struggle to tell the difference between what counts as friendship or relationship material. Basically put I met up with this girl who I got talking to online and I met up wit...

My married lover seems to have lost interest in me. Why is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I met a wonderful man through work and the chemistry between us was unbelievable. We had few business meetings with other people and he finally told me that he's very much attracted to me but never contacted me. I found out he was ...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

Despite out 6 year age difference, do you think this relationship could work out well for us ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - Hello. I'd like to get some advice, as I've never been in a similar situation before. I've met a really good, caring and beautiful girl, and in short, we talked a bit, she told me she liked me since the last year, and later on, we kissed a few ...

Is he showing interest in me in a more than a colleague way, or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2509 days ago

22 May 2017 (M) - Hi all. I'm a bisexual (for lack of better labels...) man 28 y.o., in a situation that needs your input :) I'm not gonna go in detail about myself, I just wanna state that when a girl fancies me I can tell, however I dont seem to be able to ...

How do I talk to him while we are both at the gym? I'm shy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - There's a guy at the gym i have my eye on. I had seen him around at the gym many times, but never talked. However, we both ended up doing the Spartan Race back in January. We both recognized each other, and started talking. After that, we started ...

Will I ruin our friendship if I ask him out first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2740 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - A simple one really. A guy I like seems to exhibit all the signs of being into me - dilated pupils, unnecessary physical contact, teasing, lots of talking, grooming around me, etc. Just all that stuff. Yet he hasn't asked me out, and I haven't as...

I feel used. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2739 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I had been speaking to this guy that I met online.. we had been flirting away and getting on super well. Time passed as he asked to meet which I agreed. However he didn't make it and I found out it was because he has a girlfriend. I've accepte...

I cannot keep on ignoring him. He keeps on asking me to his, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am only 14 but have a boyfriend I think he is super sweet and super cute but he is always asking me round to his. I always decline because I am too nervous because he seems to eager to move on with our relationship but all we have ...

We've become really close and he likes me ... but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - So, I've been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Yet, somehow, I can't remember much of my life before our friendship. We've become really close. He has admitted to liking me but we never actually got together because he had a girlfriend. ...

My crush is suddenly avoiding me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - I met my personal trainer end of March 2017 and immediately we clicked. We had so much fun together we would laugh all the time. He inspired me to push harder and even to go to the gym. Sometimes he would touch me in an unusual flirtatious way (but ...

Is this kind of kiss usual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - What does it mean if a guy kisses his hand and then touched your lips with the hand he has just kissed? No guy has done that 2 me before have always gone with a proper lip on lip kiss Yes I properly sound young and not very experienced but ...

Are there any ways of telling for certain whether he's into me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - There's this boy that I really like from college, and I'm a bit confused because he exhibits ALL the signs of being into me in person but doesn't message me that often. I can't tell if it's because exams are coming up and he needs A*s for uni, ...

I'm torn between boyfriend and a new guy. Do I stay with my Bf or go with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a huge age gap 11years??. We met at work and fell hard for each other. We've obviously had our ups and downs but grew stronger throughout the year. My boyfri...

How do I ask him his true feelings, and ask about commitment, without it appearing as me pressuring him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months now. He doesn't live near by so we video chat, call each other and text more then we see eachother. I sense things getting serious by the way he starts talking about our future together. He consta...

Drunk kissed my crush. We attend same classes too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - I'm sorry this is so long! But please I need an advise T.T So there's this guy in my college, let's call him M, who shares all classes with me (since it's a small college we are a little class of 19 people that will be together during all the 4...

Should I bring up the subject again? Or maybe was he just joking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - Me and this guy have been off and on for many years. Since Xmas last yr things have been getting better again for us.. him coming to see me from where he lives now more them once a week etc. Yesterday we both was discussing how long we had know...

Why is my partner continuing to flirt on line with other women? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2751 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - My partner and I met on a date site we both came off. Then he went back on so I had my broadband to block all sites. He now has a game on his phone where he can talk dirty to others. Why is he doing this? He never talks dirty to me ...

Could I successfully end up with my first love after all the years we've been apart? Been divorced, now separated from my second husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - I need serious advice. Do you think you can end up with your 1st love after years apart? I have 3 children, seperated for over a year, married twice but all my children from my 2nd husband. When I was 15 I fell in love for the 1st time-was no...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

Is he being a friend or is he truly interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2755 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - So I've been friends with this man from my church. He is considerably older than me and he is single. He also has a 3 year old boy. We get along great and I babysit his child from time to time. I've had feelings for him for a few months and I don't ...

Is something going on behind my back? Should I trust him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - Is it strange for your partner of 17 years not to add you on Facebook when he says it's for workmates ..which is a lie I've never met one person he works with in 8 years has been in the same job . By accident I came across a 3 year old Twitter ...

Am I being unreasonable? When is it okay to not feel comfortable having your boyfriends ex flings hanging around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2756 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - Two months ago I started seeing this guy. Three weeks into our relationship he tells me he has to go away for work. He asked me to stay at his place and watch his cat. The morning he's leaving it comes up that it’s his ex from months ago who hire...

His behaviour becomes embarrassing when he drinks

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - I love my 44-year-old boyfriend very much but when we socialise he drinks too much. It has happened three times in the last five months. Once we were on a train and a random couple started chatting and before long the woman and he were being over ...

Need some advice on a love-triangle situation, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

3 May 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, I would like some insight on a particular scenario involving two women, one of which is my current girlfriend and the other a friend and also pseudo-romantic interest. Let me explain the backstory. I met two different...

Unhappy in my relationship and I'm attracted to my friend but he's got a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

3 May 2017 (F) - Hello dearcupid, I am a 24 year old woman, currently in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend--let's call him K. We have been together for over five years, and a lot has changed during that time. He is about to turn 39, so there is an age ...