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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I can't get over the breakup and the nasty comments I've heard since.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3978 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - I have seeing this guy for 3.5 years. We met on the job and I thought he was a good man, come to find out that he is insecure, low self esteem and a big flirt. At first he said he was not looking for a serious relationship but over the yrs he f...

I feel I'll never attract someone of the same religion because of my looks and personality.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - hi... I am really a lost soul at the moment... I come from a Muslim family. My mom is moderate-liberal Muslim and my dad is relatively conservative. So I've been brought up with conflicting views... Anyways, so I'm at uni and I feel too conservat...

Intimacy in the relationship has declined. Is it the beginning of the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Will this relationship work? I feel his feelings for me are over. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, 4 of those years we were happy I remember him being in love with me. During our 4th year I got pregnant with a baby girl, no...

It all changed after my co-worker and I had a drunken night together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I have a co worker who had been chasing me for a couple of months. I went out with him a few times for drinks after work and we used to talk alot, he asked me out a few times outside of work, but I always ignored his advances and kept it in the ...

We are back together but nothing has changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - Well I'm back again for more advice. I got back together with my ex, it's been about 6 months or more now. While I think he is a good dad and a great provider. I can't seem to get the feelings back for him. We have undergone counseling and ...

How do I leave my violent husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for 8 years and we have 4 young children together. My husband has always had a bad temper and drinks excessively, but both have gotten worse over the years. He screams and swears at me at least once a day for something ...

In a new relationship after a first love, and I'm confused that I don't feel that spark!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 January 2014 (M) - About 7 months ago I went through terrible breakup with my 'first love/relationship'. About 2 months later I met the girl that is my current girlfriend. We dated for 3 months before making things official (The only thing I regret is having sex with ...

How can I overcome this resentment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - I have been married for 2 years. My marriage started on a wrong note, because husband treated me awfully; neglecting me, treating me like his slave, demeaning, mental torture,just the treatment that no human being ever deserves. I think he wanted to ...

I hate my life but love my kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - I am a 41 year old woman married for 22 years now with 2 kids. I have spent 22 years with a man that cannot love,care or give affections. I live a cold and lonely life and spend it fighting with him all the time to acknowledge this. He says he is ...

I expressed my feelings about the relationship and he called me psycho!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

20 January 2014 (F) - Hello all. I've been in a relationship with a man for the last 7 months. We have had plenty of ups and downs but currently we are in a down trend. I sensed he was pulling away about two weeks ago because he had a lot going on in his life. I offered ...

All the guys I date end up obsessed with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - I feel like I can't love anyone... I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what but I feel like I can't be in a relationship. Recently I've been in a lot of relationships and they all seem the same to me. I feel really silly saying this but...

Married but fell for someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I am 28 and married. I have never cheated on my husbands and never looked at another man until now. My husband has always been flirty with other women and chats them up right in front of me sometimes which is hurtful and embarrassing. I always take ...

Do I stay with my girlfriend and hope things get better, or leave her for a girl who may leave me for a girl when she decides I'm just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - im currently in a relationship with a girl and ive been with her for five years, i loved her in the beginning and i still care for her but im finding it hard to say to myself that i still love her and for the last year ive felt less intrested in ...

He ran away without even listening to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

14 January 2014 (F) - [Moderator note: Here is a link to this OP's previously submitted question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-announced-he-wanted-a-month-apart.html] My boyfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up with me over 2 months ago and I can...

How do others get over their first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - I was dumped last May. We were together for 3 years. He was my first. First sex, first I love you and first serious relationship. I know this may sound strange, but I started dating when I was 26. Before him, all the guys I met were those who liked ...

I suspect my wife is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

13 January 2014 (M) - I am married for my second time and feel I may have made a major mistake. She is a teacher and on the surface seemed to be the kind of person I was looking for. She was into family as at the time we both had kids about the same age at that tim...

My boyfriend announced he wanted a month apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - So here's the deal.... My boyf and I have been together 4 years, met at college, moved in together straight away, I finished college, he started his own business which he named after my family. We were so in love my family loved him even though ...

What did this comment mean?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

12 January 2014 (M) - Ok so I was talking to this girl for a month (we liked each other) and then she said she just wanted to be friends. One month later she sent me a text saying "hey :)" and I replied "sup" and got off without giving her a chance to reply. (I haven't ...

He asked me to leave my Bf. But is it love or lust with this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

12 January 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and in recent events he stopped being there for me. Its a long distance relationship so its understandable he gets busy with work but it become all he cares for. Certain things have occurred where i need...

After a year it feels like we're drifting apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year, we live together but here lately things have been going down hill. I feel like we're not connecting like we used. I don't feel loved by him anymore. He doesn't cuddle with me anymore he says he's to tired ...

Do I still have a chance at winning a good guy turned bad love back?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

7 January 2014 (F) - A good guy fell in love with me and pursued me for years. I resisted him and gave him the cold shoulder for years. He wasn't my typical type of guy and was much older. Fast forward now that I am grown and matured and have tested the waters over the...

She's acting a bit distant and I'm afraid she's losing interest, how do I handle the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

7 January 2014 (M) - I met a girl in early December and we get on great. She lives in my city, but had to go back to her hometown a week ago and she'll be there for at least a month and a half. Our text messages are already getting repetitive and boring and the phone ...

We need to set some ground rules for our trial separation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

4 January 2014 (F) - I am 16 years older than my BF. We met 9 years ago and our relationship escalated quickly to the point of him moving to Texas from NY and building a house for us and my two kids. We have had our ups and downs. Mostly with his maturity. He was 21 ...

Losing interest..do most couples go through that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

3 January 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, first want to say happy new year to you all. I know people on here give really great advice so I need some help. When you first get into a relationship everything is amazing at first, you spend all of your time together, hang out ...

Things are great but I am bored, how can I spice things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

2 January 2014 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and things are great I'm just bored. I don't know what to do about this, we go out alot and it just doesnt satisfy me (to put that in the most grateful way, we go and do things together alot, sex is dull ...

It bothers me that my boyfriend is not more consciencious about his appearance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

2 January 2014 (F) - Hi, I am 24 years old and in a relationship with a man for 9 months,he keeps me very happy and he's head over heels in love with me,I like him too but as superficial as this sounds I always wanted my man to dress smart wear nice watches,...