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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

LDR--he's changed in the last 6 months. Is this common?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Ive been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. He;s my bestfriend, my everything. whenever im having a bad day i call him. even though we have been dateing for 2 years, we've only been in love for a year. when i first fell for this man i ...

Think the best thing I can do at this point is to just stay silent for "a couple weeks" like she originally said, and then maybe try to call her and see what's up... what do you guys think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for two years recently she's been being a bit distant, she tells me she's spending time with family/working on career/etc. which is all totally fine, because everyone needs time for themselves, but she's been seein...

I have not been kissed in decades! Just pecks on the cheek, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Hi. Hope everyone is doing well. My one question brought another to mind for me. Why would my husband not want to kiss me at all, or sit and hug me at all? I have been married decades now, and i am not braindead LOL, but it has taken me all this ...

Right person, Wrong time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Hey guys I have a question more for all of you. Is there such a thing as meeting the RIGHT person at the WRONG time. I met who I am pretty sure is the love of my life or at least I want him to be, 2 and a half years ago. We were in a long dist...

How can I get romance in our relationship so that its better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost 6 months now. Things are going well but he doesn't do things that he used to and he's not one of the romantic types. He used to text me good morning, we used to text good night, he never talks to me about ...

How can I get closure and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Good afternoon. I went to get my alimony from my ex the other day. had to drive one hour and fifteen mins. to get it, way too long. I told him that it was too far to drive, he than said I can mail it, mailing it was not an option earlier for him. ...

What happened to the chemistry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - okay my guy and I have had a relationship before with a child. split up 14 years later we have been back together going on 2 years. we've alwys have had hot chemistry even when we weren't together. problem is it seems like since we've become more ...

Do I keep fighting for love or pull back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - My 9 year relationship with my boyfriend just ended 6 weeks ago. The first 5 years were great. The last 4, not so great. I gained a lot of weight and pushed him away. Wouldn't have sex with him. Wouldn't even let him touch me. I was mean to him. I ...

How can I convince my ex that it was he who drove me away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend split up with me six weeks ago he said he wanted a break. My and my ex used to argue a lot over him going out really. He has also cheated on me a few months ago so I feel like I can't really trust him. After my ex split with me ...

How can I stop myself from sending messages to a man who isn't interested in me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I met a guy who's 2 years younger than me in a dating site. At first, he was very much interested in chatting with me, in meeting me, and was even telling me that i was more important than his work, so he wanted to chat with me more in the middle of ...

I've developed a crush on my boyfriend's childhood friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I'm 24 female, and I have been with my 28 year old partner for 4 years. Just recently he's got back in touch with an old friend from his childhood who has moved back into our village and we often invite him over for drinks, the three of us go on ...

Why did I fall out of love with her so drastically?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (M) - Why did I change? Why did I fall out of loves with her so drastically? I was in a relationship for just over a 1 1/2 years. I never really felt like she was the right person for me, but I stuck it out because we were having a lot of fun together,...

I really want to leave my husband, but how can I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - Modnote: please advise your country too, as it will= more culturally appropriate advice.Some countries have better support resources than other countries - available to a woman facing your issues. .... ..... ..... ..... ..... .... ....... ..... .....

After two years I'm finding him both controlling and dull

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 June 2013 (F) - Hi. So I've been with my fiance for almost two years next month...(Cheated on him two weeks into our relationship) Anyway, I guess I'm finding him a bit boring and controlling these days... please note my partner has "Autistic tendencies...

I think our relationship has run its course. Should I just end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

8 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we lived together for four. I was made redundant at the new year and got a job offer in another part of the country which, after much deliberation, I decided to take. My boyfriend could not leave his ...

He's fathered a New baby, with his new younger wife. So why did he have to show me a photo of the baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

7 June 2013 (F) - hi aunts and uncles, its me the older woman dumped for the 24 year old girl who got pregnat by the ex.... im over him, still care about him but have finally come to terms. i went to meet up with him for the alimony payment the other day and what ...

He's controlling. He says no more sex until I get a job. Is it wrong for him to give me ultimatums for not having a job?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

6 June 2013 (F) - Ive been dating a older man for almost 3 years now. im 21 and he's 44. Get ready i could tell stories all day of all the s^^t iv'e been thru with and because him. I love him very much still but not as in love with him as i was before. im s...

What am I doing wrong?? He watches porn. I try to accomodate his needs. He seems not to care,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 June 2013 (F) - Okay, lets start off my husband and i have been together snice he was 15 and I 16. We are now him 20 and I 21. we love to have a good time always. I plesure him any time he wants.we have AMAZING sex (so i thought) but he has a porn addition...

I feel like I've been put on the back burner completely!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

5 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. I know it's still somewhat in the early stages but far enough in that we should know way more about each other than we do. He got a new job back in January with really demanding hours and I know he ...

Part of me still wants to be with this woman even though I don't think she can be what I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 June 2013 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship that has since faded out after 9 months. My problem is there is a piece of me that still wants to spend my life with her although I know she is probably not capable of being the warm, caring compassionate woman ...

Is this a good ploy to spice up our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

4 June 2013 (M) - i have been with my girl friend for over 6 years now and we are almost running out of sexual adventures. She's very outgoing and have good friends out of which i know one guy she seem to like a bit more than the other. While recently making out, ...

Its over btwn us but I can't break the communication. Please advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 June 2013 (M) - I had a long distance relationship with a woman who I started dating from the time I was served for divorce 9 months ago. While we both know the relationship is now over I am having a hard time breaking all communication with her. I know she is not ...

How can I get myself back on track, I used to do all this stuff but now I'm losing the will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

3 June 2013 (F) - So I guess this doesn't seem too bad but I've been with my bf now for 5 years, we got together at 15 and he now lives with me (we are both 20 now) Well I waited a year until I was ready to have sex with my boyfriend as I didn't want to rush thi...

Are my husband's threats real or a bluff? What can I do to protect myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 June 2013 (F) - my husband is living in the same house as I am with his girl friend. He threatened me yesterday saying that he will not give me alimony and I will either be going back to my country or living n jaiL if I do not work and move out and he will be ...

I have that constant feeling in my gut telling me "He's not the one"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

1 June 2013 (F) - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, we are in a long distance relationship. I've noticed that lately he's getting very distant, he'd rather spend his time playing video games with his friends, we can go for days without talking ...