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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,Before I start I'll just give you some brief info about me. I'm 18, turning 19 in two months.I've never had a boyfriend.I've never been serious with a guy.I had, had only one kiss with one guy which was over two years ago.I'm a virgin. I don't rave or go clubbing.I'm not a drinker/smoker.So a few weeks ago I met this guy, he's 20, he's definitely more on the 'bad boy' side.I've met up with him a few times and recently he kissed me, he's very straight forward and full on with what he does and says.He's told me he's liked me quite a few times, the last time we were together was yesterday and we couldn't keep our lips off of each other.In the two hours that we were together, we were kissing a countless amount of times and its not like he's trying anything cause he keeps his hands to himself.At the same time, he likes to take control and I've never had that feeling before. When were kissing he grabs me, holds me tight or takes hold of my face or the back of my neck as we kiss. In a weird sort of way, I like that. I like a guy when he's in control and its sort of a turn on.But I think I do like him but obviously still need to get to know him even better but I'm trying to figure out why the bad boy thing attracts me.I mean, he smokes, parties, etc, and I can't figure out whether I truly like him or if I'm just attracted to the mystery and excitement.What do you guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): It's probably you just being overwhelmed with the exprience of him being in control of the situation but it's okay for you to feel tensed and excited. It's normal just see how the relationship turns out
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reader, cheers  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 Thanks for writing so frankly. You simply never do it before,so the feeling of excitement really engross you so much. People do smoke and party but that does not mean they're bad,as long they know the limit.There's still lots more you've to know about him, like personality, character,family relationship and how he treats and take care of you, before you move on deeperAll the best
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