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*ngellovesgeo
writes:hi... ive been in two serious relationships in this past year with two different guys... i was with a guy who i had a crush on for 4 yrs for 6 months and it was long distance because i moved to here three yrs ago. well me and him had a lot of trust issues so we broke up constantly.i was with him when i met my other serious relationship and broke up with him for the new guy.i was with that guy too for a 4 months off and on (well we broke up twice) and got his intials on my back to find out a couple hours after i got it done he broke up with me which really hurt. but we got back togather and decided to work on things. well to end the story short im with a new guy and its starting to get serious. i usally date guys younger then me but i met him and hes only 5 mos younger then me. well we were togather two wks and found out he had to move so he moved to a different state and it not that far probaly 300 miles away but still.well all my friends are saying to stay with him and that they like him which is unusal cause they hated the others and telling me to work on things well on the other hand igot my grandma and my aunt puttin horrible thoughts in my head. my grandma thinks he didnt move and that he just didnt want to be with me and my aunt thinks when he goes back to school hes gonna find another girl and forget about me. im so confused. he assures me its not going to happen and to be honest i dont think it will but the though is still in my head. were already saying i love u and he always says he misses me randomly on the phone during a conversation. he says hes going to come visit after everything gets situated doown there. i beleive him but ive been hurt so many times and im confused at this point. by the way hes a really great guy he listens and we never have awkward silences in conversations. what should i do. should i beleive my family or friends???
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (27 August 2011):
 Listen to your family. I never liked to listen to my family either when I was a teenager, but they are usually always right. And when it comes to character assessment of your friends and boyfriends, they are usually always right! Their opions and perceptions are not clouded by love like yours, and believe me, they can pick up on things that you or your inexperienced teenage friends would never even consider.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 I'd wait and see what he does when he visits. If he really has moved 300 miles I wouldn't keep things going. It is just too far at your young age. You need someone close by that you can meet and touch and walk out with.
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