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writes:me and my ex just started seeing each other not even a week ago when my therapist called her to see if she would come in for a session. She called me and we met up. Then hooked up and it was great. We still fought almost the whole time (just like during our relationship) even tho we hadn't seen each other in almost 2 months.The sex was pretty good the first night - kind of akward because we hadn't seen each other and were probably thinking of all the shit the other has been upt o.But honestly I haven't even kissed another girl.She told me she kissed some guys but hated it because they weren't me but didn't hook up w/anyone. I'm not even upset about that. Anyway.So that was sat night. Then we agreed to hangout monday night. So sunday I missed her like hell then when monday came she blew me off around 5 at night. Right when I was getting off of work ready to see her.I said ok. She told me to come over the next night tuesday.So I'm like alright...Tuesday comes and she tries blowing me off again! So I just said have a good night.I spent all night monday drawing her this flower (i can draw good) so tues. night i texted her a pic of it and said "I was going to give you this tonight...I don't like being blown off. I'm going to stop contacting you again, please go easy on yourself"1 second later she texts me "so come over now"#$^(@#$*_%@#$*(So i came over and at first she was busy eating, texting, getting ready for bed, blah blah. I told her she was being rude and that I didn't come over there to watch her sit on her phone. She got rude and mentioned me leaving so i said"ok ^^^you, ^^ this s^^^t im leaving"got up and started putting my pants on.then she got up and basically begged me to stay.So I did.then we snugged and had the most mind blowing sex ever.Said I love yous when I was deep inside her. It was like a dream. (those are her words)I woke up a couple times and kissed and held her.It felt so good. like the old days.Anyway I'm supposed to go over there to spend the night tomorrow.I'm scared she's going to bs me.When we were together we were very controlling. I think now that she's "Free" and out doing all the things she wants she likes it - but def. misses me. I'm okay w/her doing all that shit so long as she's faithful and mine.I want things to work but don't know what her deal is.P p p pa pleaseee give me some advice.p.s. im 26 she's 25i'm immature in a lot of ways and my therapist told me she's got the mind of a grown woman. if that helps.OK THANK YOU CUPIDS
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question- OP here, so we hungout last night like we were supposed to but only untill she strung me along till about 10 o clock. Then I drove an hour to see her. We didn't hook up and she was pretty rude. But we still had some affection time. She told me "you know I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you" which is a bad sign. I told her so did I. Anyway I just got home from being there and I checked this guys facebook page that she knows I don't want her seeing. And he came over the night before I did.She told me she hasn't hooked up with anyone but I'm having a hard time believing this. I want to talk to her about these things but she never wants to talk - then when we do I don't even know where to start.So that rich cute guy is hitting on her hard. Do I just back off? Do I talk to her about them? Or just my feelings? Please help
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 It is really hard to judge just what is going on with her. If you can handle it, just hang on and see how things pan out. But it does sound very, very difficult, and I am afraid that you will be hurt. Best of luck, whichever way you choose to go.
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