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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I met this girl online on a non-dating site. We've been sending each other PM's for a while, I found out that we were from the same city and share a lot of interests.We decided to meet each other on August 18 and here's the thing: she seems to be very shy and I don't want to spook her. That would be easier if it was a 100% blind date, but since I don't keep my facebook a secret, she might know what I look like, and I have no idea what she looks like since I didn't ask her to send me any pictures because I really love that first moment of a blind date. So what would you advise me to do to make it easier for her? Thank you in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): Maybe share or ask her for a photo of her, before you meet her? I know I would - meeting somebody without having a clue is OK for you, but she may have a lot of self doubt or even confidence issues, wondering if you will like her in person,especially as you get on well onlineIf you don't want to do that, then make it really friendly, like its just 2 people meeting for coffee,no pressure at all, just a 'hello' to follow on from the chats.
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