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writes:Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a few jerks. However it's important to know that all men will not treat you bad. Therefore, it's not fair to put all guys into one bad category.Instead this is what you should do:1. Learn to trust the next guy. If in your last relationship you've been lied to or cheated on, you may put up a wall to guard your heart. But instead of putting up a wall, you should open up to the guy. Tell him that though it's going to take some time, but you're willing to work on trusting him. Give a person 100% trust- and let them know that it's up to them to decide whether they want to keep it or lose it. This gives a guy a fair shot to show you what he's about- without feeling like he has to fight for something he never initiialy lost.2. Make room for love. Don't make excuses like "I have to focus a lot of my time on work" or "there are just a lot of things going on in my life right now". If you decide to pursue a relationship with someone, give him the same amount of time and attention that you think you deserve to get. By coming up with excuses...you're putting up barriers. And you'll never know how great a guy will be until you give him a chance.When you go through many bad relationships, you have to understand that it's only going to bring you one step closer to finding that special guy. So once you find him, it's going to make you appreciate the relationship more. Don't give up now on finding true happiness. Keep your hopes high, your heart open, and keep in mind that all men are different. Reply to this Article
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (1 October 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi Cheers,
Thank you for your positive comment- and also for taking the time to read my articles. Enjoy the rest of your day!
Cheers! :^)
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reader, cheers  +, writes (30 September 2011):
 Hi. Great to read your articles. I enjoy so much.Thanks, Daniel
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (18 September 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI apologize anonymous reader for replying to you so late. I wish I would've noticed your comment a lot sooner.
It seems as though you've been through some bad relationships with guys, but I can tell you that NOT ALL men are like what you've described. I'm sorry you and your freinds have encountered men that are uncaring, rude, and potentially ignorant...but they don't even make up 1% of the male population. There are so MANY great guys out there that are the total opposite of what you've observed. I wish you the very best in finding a decent guy if you're single, or having a more caring partner if you're not.
Best! :^)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2011): But you're wrong, all men are the same. You skimmed the issue of "same."
When the baby is born they want he wife to do all the work (even if she's working full time and he is the at home father.) And he can just go hang out with friends.
When the wife is so stressed from working 24 hours a day and too tired for sex he will complain "you're a cold fish," and when she asks for help so she can become a sexy woman again, he will call her a nag.
He will tell all of his friends what a b* she is an how much hates being married and put her down behind her back, even if she does everything for him without complaint and loves him and supports him.
He will complain about her becoming fat, old, and ugly even though he is also getting fat, old, and ugly, too...
These are just some common observations I've made not only from my own relationships but others I've seen. Women also have problems.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (16 August 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBelieve me, I know women can do/say bad things. But wether you're straight, gay, or bi, you have to keep your heart open and understand that not everyone is going to treat you bad. There are many wonderful people out there. You just have give them a chance.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (15 August 2011):
Daniel the love doctor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your positive comments Blonde30s. :^) I think you made some valid points as well.
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