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writes:Hello, So I met a girl a few weeks ago at Comic Con. We met there in the morning, had lunch together, hung out throughout the day, and even ended up having dinner together with a few of her friends as well. I contacted her a few days later and after a great 20 minute conversation, asked her if she would like to go to the movies and she accepted. We went out and during the movie she was very close to me and even held my hand when I placed it on her lap. After the movie finished she said she was hungry, so I invited her to dinner, and after dinner I dropped her off at her place. Most recently I called her, and after another good conversation, she asked if I could join her in an event happening downtown. I said sure, and said I would call her on Saturday to see at what time she would be going with her friends, because she said she did not know yet. I called her up today around 1 PM, and woke her up, but she said it was fine because she had to get up anyway, and asked her if she could text me when she was there so I could go. She said she would. The day went on and I never got a call or a text, so I called her at 6 PM and she did not pick up. I didn't leave a voicemail. So what should I do now? Should I just wait to see if she sends me a text or tries to call me? Or should I call her in a few days? Thank you for reading, and for any advice!
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (17 February 2014):
Roboaxe is verified as being by the original poster of the question And she turned out to be a lesbian. Yep, her aloof behavior when it came to dates suddenly made sense.
But, we ended up becoming good friends.
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (18 August 2011):
Roboaxe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey you two, thanks for the advice!
So I did wait until Tuesday, and I decided to call her. She answered the phone and said she ended up not going to the event because it was a very hot day and her friends decided not to go either.
I talked with her for about 20 minutes and when I asked her if she was free this weekend, she said she was going to a friends sleepover on Friday and had to work on Sunday.
I'm thinking she is just not that interested in me anymore for some reason, so I think I'm just going to leave her alone and see if she contacts me again.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (14 August 2011):
 At the moment all you can do is wait to see if she contacts. She was the one that said she would contact but she didn't. I would say, leave it until Tuesday and then send a brief hello text. If nothing after then, just forget things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): Why was she asleep at 1pm ? Was she ill ? If so,maybe thats why she didnt answer the phone for the rest of the day.you could try one more phone call and if she doesnt answer,either leave a message on voicemail or send a text asking whats going on and if she is ok.if she doesnt respond to that i think you should move on.
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