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Archived questions from: February, 2018 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My boyfriend still trying to get back with his ex but he can't love her! He gave me the ring

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - what should I do? So for the past few weeks I’ve been on here trying to get advice. Trying to figure out if I’m a rebound or not. A week ago he was still hitting up his ex trying to give her oral sex, as well as physical sex. She turned him down ...

Why would he send this text to me? “Hi beautiful”?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. I got a strange text from BF of 5 years today. It said “Hi beautiful, just checking in to make sure you haven’t forgotten me, and that you are flourishing as usual. Very busy with school sports for the kids at the moment but enjoying ...

Why would a woman agree to be a married man's side chicK?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - Why would a woman agree to be a man's side chick, knowing that he has a girlfriend / wife? She knows that he can't spend major holidays with her, no birthday celebrations, no introduction to his family or friends. He can only talk to her and be w...

My trust is in shreds and I don’t know how to move forward in this relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do about my life and my relationship and I need some help and advice. So I have been with my partner for almost 5 years now. The first two years we're challenging for us, I found messages, images etc. on his phone ( I know I...

Am I fooling myself that we can hold this relationship together long term? Anyone else experience this type of situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - 30 years ago I was dating a guy who was a male version of me. Stubborn. Determined. Intense. He was my first love and I’d never loved anyone so deeply. I have never been a jealous person but I wanted him all to myself. We’d argue because he hated...

I feel worse after breaking up with my married lover

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I finally pulled the plug and broke up with my married lover but now i feel worse. I am having an extremely hard time getting over it. It was an ugly break up and even though he begged to remain friends and promised to be the man i met in the beg...

Married boss claimed to love me, kissed me and has now blocked me! Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Ok so basically me and this guy I work with who is assistant manager and is married.. used to get on so well. I used to call him my work bestie as we just clicked and always had a laugh. Over the past couple of months I feel him getting closer t...

Why does a cheater cheat and then beg his gf or wife not to leave him if she finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Why does a cheater cheat on a woman he loves and then if she finds out, begs her not to leave him? Why would he even commit the worst relationship sin of all if he loved her? Seemingly he did not care enough about her not to hurt her. So, if ...

My husband bought a perfume for a colleague.. Is he cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

21 February 2018 (F) - My husband came home from trip abroad. While i was unpacking i saw a burberry perfume i sent him a picture of it.. ang replied” for my colleague”... the perfume is obviously for women. He messaged again he said “ did i do anything wrong?” I felt ...

I hate sex with my husband!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 2451 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - OMG. I hate sex with my husband. It was always not great but I thought it would improve over time. I love him very much and I didn’t think that was a reason to break up before we got married. I’ve never discussed this with anyone.A...

I love him, but his deception can’t go on!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi Aunts! I'm 29 years old and in an alleged relationship with a married man for the last one and a half year. It wasn't intended to happen cause we were only friends, but developed nonetheless. At first, he kept his marital status a secret from me....

A relationship with an attached man is making me feel so sad?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a man who lives with his baby mama for a year and I've fallen head over heals in love with him.He told me that he was in the process of leaving her and they are not really together but idk..He still live her a year later with no ...

She has a way of clawing herself back into my life! Insight needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi all, I started dating this girl in December 15. I was 25 and she was 22 and was a TA in my class. We eventually grew in attraction and one evening, it progressed. Initially I was reluctant and said no as she was my colleague but she pursued ...

My partner cheated on me, can we make it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - My question is simple. This is something I'm trying so hard to move past, for around the last 6 months now. I feel like I have progressed, but in real baby steps! Is it really possible to forgive and continue a relationship with someone who chea...

My boyfriend is sending other girls naked pictures.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - Hi I have caught my boyfriend messaging other girls even to the point he was sending naked pictures I tried to forgive him but IDK if I really can I always worry about who he talking to so how should I break it of I don't think I can keep going on ...

My husband spends more time with his female co worker than he does with me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - My husband has a female coworker that he has been friends with for a while. They go out to lunch together and text each other here and there. I’ve never had a problem with this, I have male coworkers that I am friends with as well. My problem is ...

His profile picture on his second account is a sex scene and he’s interacting with other women! I feel sick!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 2 months. We always talk about our past. He doesn't have a father, he lives a very hard and tough life, his childhood was a total disaster But i was kind of shocked when he told me that he has a fake Facebook account ...

What is considered cheating in an open relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

11 February 2018 (M) - My wife and I agreed to be in an open relationship. We were both very into the idea for years. During sex, she haexpressed interest in a mutual male friend. Several months later I was suspecting that they were fooling around but she never mentione...

I cheated and I stay because I think I owe him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

8 February 2018 (F) - (Mod note: based on your follow ups you are in an abusive relationship and require assistance beyond the scope of this site. Please contact the organization provided by the last post. This question is being closed now.) This is going to be a long one...

I'm happy talking to this guy even though I'm married

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

8 February 2018 (F) - Hello all, I am 32 years old and been married since I was 23, I have 3 daughters now, my husband is a really good person and i loved him so much but he has cheated on me three years ago. i forgave him and this year while i was pregnant he was in a...

I thought he loved me but he cheated and she's pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

7 February 2018 (F) - Hello this may be a lil not lengthy but I need advice. I was in a long distance relationship with someone I met on a job two years ago, we met when I moved to Virginia for a short period of time but because we were both in a relationship at the time ...

I love her but I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2476 days ago

7 February 2018 (M) - Ok so I been with my girlfriend for all most 6 years have a 4 year old son and honestly we have been thru so much from keeping lil lies from each other wen we where younger to frowning and trusting eachother for about the past 4 to 5 years there ...

How do I manage to become friends with possibly sleazy but otherwise awesome guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

5 February 2018 (F) - So, for more than one year I have this little crush for a guy, he is a good person, I see that he helps people when he can, he is really interesting and I find him very sexy too (but I can totally contain myself) - one thing of this guy, that I felt ...

What else besides texting my daughter should I do to stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

4 February 2018 (F) - I just witnessed my pregnant daughters husband playing footsies with my other daughter under the table! I texted my single daughter and told her to Stop what she was doing with her sisters husband now. It did not stop completely however. The ...

After 2 years together I sense that something isn't right

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

3 February 2018 (F) - I'm in a two year relationship and although my boyfriend cheated on me, one night stand, at the very start of our relationship, we managed to work through it and we are still together now. We had been together for 4 months, and he confesse...

He’s blocked me on everything, do I wait to see if he comes back or do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

3 February 2018 (F) - Hi guys I need your advise. Me and my ex have broken up. A few months ago Due to arguing. But we are still meeting up nearly every week. He kept accusing me of cheating which I would never. He never likes me going out because guys would approach me ...

I’m falling for him badly, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

2 February 2018 (M) - I'm a straight lad who has only ever had hetrosexual relationships. I've recently started chatting to another guy who is in a homosexual long term relationship. Over a while we become close and have since ended up meeting up on numerous occasions ...