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writes:I'm a straight lad who has only ever had hetrosexual relationships. I've recently started chatting to another guy who is in a homosexual long term relationship. Over a while we become close and have since ended up meeting up on numerous occasions and done everything other than anal sex. I'm aware he has a long term partner and he said this is fun only and nothing can ever come of it but now I feel like I'm falling for him quite badly! What the hell do I do!?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 February 2018):
 You say you are straight but am guessing you are bisexual. It is okay to explore with different people and different genders, but honestly why would you do that with someone elses partner? Do you not care that he is with someone else and he is a cheat? He doesn't want a relationship with you, he has that already he just wants some fun on the side and you are it. Please be careful that you do not catch an unwanted STI. If I was you I would end it and never sleep with someone else's partner again, as it is just wrong.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 February 2018):
 You know that you are just a slab of meat on the side for this guy, right?
And that YOU are the proverbial "home-wrecker"? Right?
That sits OK with you?
Have some self control, end whatever is going on and CUT the contact.
And you may not be as "straight" as you think. It's OK to explore your sexuality and have curiosity but at the expense of another person? Not OK (and I mean the partner of the guy you are messing around with).
Let's say for a minute that YOU are the BF in the relationship, HOW would you feel that your partner were doing these things with someone else? BET you wouldn't like it, so WHY do you think you are above that?
Think about it?
It's not just "harmless fun". If harmless fun is what you want, go have fun with SINGLE guys.
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