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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I love my long term partner but feel a spark for a coworker!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - Hi, i'm in a situation i never thought i'd be and i need advice, because i can't talk about it with anyone..I'm in a longterm relationship (7 years). I love my partner, although i can't deny that our relationship is much of a rutine now. We live ...

My ex wants me permanently in the background and have a baby mother too!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2585 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - Im good frinds with my ex. We are very close. We broke up 5 yrs ago, but during those 5 yrs we have been sleeping with each other. We talked about getting back together and trying for a baby.... But I told him im not ready.He was ok with this...

Should I tell my dad's new wife he's cheating on her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - my dad is a horrible person and a big cheater. i recently caught my dad out cheating on his new wife. No mistake about it-it was a sad site. my dad has moved on and he has his own family--and his new wife has tried hard to be nice to us--even...

Why have I started despising my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - Is it normal for the other woman to start hating or resenting the married man she's been seeing for a while? How does it go from him being able to do no wrong to thinking less of him over time? So, from love to hate? Seems like such a drop in her f...

Do I tell my son she's cheating?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2580 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - My son's wife is cheating on him. Both she and my son are 29 and have been together for just over 9 years. I received an e-mail about 4 years ago from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past 5 or 6 years w...

Why would he say "I love you" if he has no intention of changing his life for you?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - If a married man you've been involved in a long term relationship with tells you he loves you, could he really mean it, even if he will never leave his wife to be with you? It's a terrible predicament to be in when you realize you now love this ma...

Boyfriend says his phone was hacked. I don't believe him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - I recently found pictures of my significant other in his phone along with seeing him on website called backpage. I viewed his history and found him looking up girls in different areas. He denied taking those pictures in my bed from not even less ...

I have unresolved feelings about my wife cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

27 October 2017 (M) - Like most guys I know, its not the easiest thing to talk about feelings. I have been struggling with this for a while and has grown more and more to bother me. Hate to divulge that my wife cheated about a year ago but its part of the thorn. S...

Guys, do you miss the other woman if the affair ends suddenly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

25 October 2017 (F) - Guys, do you miss your mistress when your affair ended suddenly. I just ended my affair with a married man. Without stating the reason why. I know it’s wrong to be in love with him. So please spare me all the nasty comments. I feel kinda ...

Was he trying to deceive me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Was he trying to deceive me? There are two aspects to an action. What was the intention behind something (the mental part) and what action was taken/not taken (the physical part). What is bugging me on an issue is what was the intention behind...

I'd like to help them save their marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Oh boy. I have two friends that have been married for ten years. The husband has been having an affair off and on for three years with a chick he refused to ever completely sever ties with. The wife has taken off with other guys during their splits ...

The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 October 2017 (F) - The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me? We have an odd relationship, we say we love each other all the time. He says he's not ready to date (we've been in a like-dating stage for 3 years). I have fallen in love with him. But I feel like I'm ...

I think he likes another girl but I don't know how to broach the topic

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2620 days ago

17 October 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months but it's not exactly official, his family don't know and only a couple of our close friends know, it's like a need to know basis. Recently he went on holiday back to his home town with a mutu...

My ex hasn't told me his wife is filing for divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

17 October 2017 (F) - I've been seeing ex for some time. Yes, I know it's wrong it's a long story. anyway, his now wife is filing for divorce but he hasn't told me. heard from mutual friend. why would he not mention this?...

She cheated twice! Will her boyfriend ever accept her or trust her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - There is this girl dating someone she really love this guy and this guy also love her but she later cheat ,she went to have sex with her ex but she no longer love her ex and her current boyfriend found about it he was mad according to him he said ...

My 'best friend' isn't much of a friend at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I have had a friend for about 30 years. We met as small children and have been "best friends" since. She has actually been fake and shady toward me since childhood. She would treat me differently depending on who was around. I was not strong ...

My ex cheated on me, it took me 2 years to get over him and now he wants to try again

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - At what point can you be sure you have forgiven someone for hurting you, and take them back? 3 years ago my then boyfriend of nearly 2 years left me for someone else. It took me a long time to get over it, but I did. I never really forgot he...

He found the girl he dumped me for was too costly and wants me to take him back.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - So, this guy and I were dating for almost two years and he proposed to me in May. A few weeks later he tells me hes going on vacation with his old crush/ friend since high school there both 28. But they have been friends forever. So, he breaks off ...

My boyfriend is sad after his ex girlfriend's revelation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Hello, I have a story to tell. This summer my bf and I got together. He had a girlfriend but he cheated on her to be with me. At first we were friends and I knew he had a girlfriend but I was so in love with him and I was trying to resist for so ...

Should I kick him out of my house and my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Hi All!! First thank you for taking the time out to help me... Ive been dating the same guy for 5 yrs now. And for the past couple yrs he has changed into an unpredictable screaming heartless prick towards me. Im always caught off guard when he gets ...

It seems like our relationship was a big lie!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

6 October 2017 (F) - First, let me start by saying the past week with my boyfriend has been great. He's been affectionate and talking about marriage, which itself isn't new, and spending all his time with me at my house aside from work. We'll call him D Then out of n...

This married man is only interested when his family are out of town

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - Hello here, the thing is I met this married guy around august 2015,though he didn't tell me he was married until almost a month and then I was already in love with him I don't know why but I remember all I could say to him was know problem and don't ...

I don't trust my husband and he thinks I am cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2634 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - Are I met my husband 5 years ago back when I was in high school it's been tough throught out these years... I have 2 kids of my own and he has 2 of his own ever since we got engaged and moved in we've been working a lot his baby mommas call him all ...

He's bragged about cheating on me behind my back but denies it when I confront him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

2 October 2017 (F) - Have been told by strangers, friends and family that my boyfriend of twenty years has bragged about cheating on me every chance he gets when he's working out of town. He actually butt dialed me during one of his bragging sessions to a friend and I ...

I'm heartbroken but he said he wouldn't get back together with me because I was acting crazy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

1 October 2017 (F) - Okay so I'm looking for a little perspective... I was dating this guy (both in our early to mid 20s) for 6 months. During this time it got very intense. In the beginning he was incredible... suggested we go on holiday together after 1 month, a...