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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Why do I put up with this? We both like jazz. But why do I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, here's my dumb question. I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. In that time we have had our ups and downs. I have never asked him for sexual fidelity, which means that he is pretty open with me and doesn't feel like he ...

This is a second attempt at our relationship and I'd like feedback on my suggested guidelines!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend is in president of his fraternity and I know how important his frat is to him so I don't want to prevent him from his duties/fun. However, we recently broke up because he did something while drunk at a party that I didn't approve of ...

Help ! Should we get back together? Did he really cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - First off people of the internet, I apologize for the really long post I really just want you all to fully understand the situation (: So.. I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend because my friend told me she saw him grinding with another gir...

My boyfriend just told me he would not be able to resist really good looking women ....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I were discussing our plans to go travelling overseas, where he told me we would need to stay away from certain countries where there are "extremely good looking women" because he wouldn't be able to control himself. He ...

I tricked my boyfriend because I wanted to know if I could trust him and he failed!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - i made a fake profile to test if i can trust my boyfriend, i added and chat with him and ask if he had a girlfriend and he says yes, but the next day i ask him to meet up at a private place and he agrees. after i confronted him he said he's sorry ...

How am I supposed to continue into the future with someone as spiteful as she has been towards me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

24 September 2015 (M) - I've been dating this girl on and off for a little over three years and I just recently found out that whilst we weren't together for a short period of time, she had sex with a guy that was clearly my enemy, but she didn't come clean about it until ...

To love? Or to live? Or to leave? That is the question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years is seriously ill and this alone brings heartache because his life is inevitably shortened. I have offered him to move in with me but he likes to keep his own place and it does make financial matters easier to handle. H...

How can I get past the regret of never being able to be with him? Am I allowed to pursue a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hello dear all, For many years now I work together with someone in a local cultural institute. While I was young, about 15, he was 21 and I guess our age gap was considered too big, by ourselves and by others. I had a crush on him for years a...

Should I have a baby with him? He's married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - I am a 38 year old lady who has been in an unhappy long distance relationship in another city(away from home) for 7years with no assurance from my man that he will marry me any time soon. At the beginning of this year i met a guy same age as me wh...

He cheated. Now he's devastated I'm leaving. Do I give him another chance or give up ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I just spent the last few months getting my 25 year-old live-in boyfriend of nine years to confess that he cheated sometime last year. We'd had a great relationship other than this. I knew that he'd attempted to cheat at ...

Is it a lost cause to be looking for a man who, within a relationship, does not lust after other women ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - I'm growing increasingly tired of men thinking they can lust after other women with no consequences. Like us ladies don't notice or we are just supposed to accept it as "men being men". Are there any men out there who genuinely disagree with looking ...

Do I go or stay out of guilt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

22 September 2015 (M) - I left my wife and young sons for another woman, I am not proud of it but I fell in love. So walked.She left her marriage Still with the other woman missed the kids best years, my ex let me have access and it must have been hard for her. Fast...

I don't know what this guy is thinking or what game he might be playing, can anyone shed any light?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts/Uncles, I'm really confused about this guy I have been dating. We met a few months ago on a night out, my friend and his friend ended up getting it on that night and we went back to his friends too, but nothing happened between...

Should I confront a cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Whilst I was browsing on a free online dating site I came across my friend whos girlfriend is eight months pregnant. What shall I do. I've known my friend since school, at school I had a crush on him and decades later I asked him out, which he...

If you have a nasty partner, is it cheating if you find a few hours of solace and happiness with someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

18 September 2015 (M) - If your partner is nasty and doesn't miss any chance to belittle, criticize,and hurt you, is it considered cheating if you find a few hours of solace and happiness with someone else? I feel it isn't. ...

I found out my boyfriend lied and cheated. Do I take him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - Hey all, So I have asked questions before on this board and it really helped. Please help! I have been living with my boyfriend for about 4 years. Things are tough because we both work medical and emergency services which means our schedul...

My husband is loving towards me but has favourites of naked women and goes to chat sites and looks at porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - My Question is, is it ok for your husband to seek out new sexy females as friends on social networks constantly and connecting with porn or other people he is attracted to by following or friending them, he knows it hurts me when he does this and ...

Men: Do you consider it cheating when you go to a Buck's Night out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) - So my question is mainly for men. I was just wondering why when men go to a bucks night they enjoy the shows that include sex toys and watch a woman use them? What is the fulfilment of this? Do they fantasize about it? what is arousing by that when ...

How can I show him love when I have no confidence and feel so insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - I'm looking for more advice - I am begging...I did it. I have finally confronted my husband to let him know how unhappy I am in our marriage. We argue about silly things. Mainly most recently due to our toddler growing up and how different we deal ...

Why is my ex-friend even trying with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My female friend treated me badly - she had an affair with my boyfriend behind my back, lied to me and basically treated me like dirt. We fell out obviously - but now she wants to make up and says she feels bad about everything she's done. ...

Boyfriend admitted that he's attracted to another woman but says it ends there and has no feelings for her. Do I believe him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend (not sure what to call him right now) have been dating for over a year now. We have had our ups and downs but have a lot of love for each other. I just broke up with him last week because I found out that 8 months ago he had a crush o...

We're both married but I want her in my life! How do I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

15 September 2015 (M) - Hi Friends Really sad for me..... Both of us are married, she is 30 and I am 42. I met her few month back in her office. She is beautiful and nice. We start talking on phone and chat. But when she came to know my feelings through mail. She asked ...

Is this what men are really like in their thoughts and feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - I have only had one bf before and I'm just really confused if it is my lack of experience or in fact, what men are. My new bf been with him for over a year. We live together and he tells me how I'm perfect and how much he loves me and wants to be ...

He tells me to stop moaning! Help me out, I need advice, everybody tell me what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3355 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - Just started dating a guy Ive known 20yrs cos he been asking me out for ever and said I mean whole world to him. Hes a lovely guy and I thought life’s getting better. But now we together, he works away and never texts me, except every 3 days ...

Do I leave my husband with the wandering eye and spend what time I have left alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

8 September 2015 (F) - Dear All, I have been an Aunt on this site but am posting anonomously as I feel embarrassed about my situation and need help and advice. I first came to this site as my then partner (now husband) liked to look at porn. He also had a wandering eye ...

Does he just want sex or could we be friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

5 September 2015 (F) - So I've asked similar questions, but now there's more to it. So I lost my virginity to a guy who was a co-worker, at the time when I lost my virginity we were no longer co-workers because i had quit due to some family issues. I don't think it m...

Can I let this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - I have recently become really close with one of my mates mothers. She is a beautiful person inside and out. She is married with 6 children (3 live with her). We've become really close and we are both always there if the other needs us. Last night I ...

My ex cheated, lied and even slapped my face once. How do I stop wanting to go back to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

3 September 2015 (F) - dear cupids, really i need help. i am now overly happy, excited, and boosted with energy. what did i do? i simply watched some videos of my ex-boyfriend, in his car, in his house, mostly with his family members. my heart is just racing with...

I got back from a trip to find another man's pair of underwear in my bed. Do I believe my wife's story?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

3 September 2015 (M) - came home from a week long trip found a pair of men's underwear in my bed that weren't mine. Was told they got mixed in laundry and got there when she made the bed. What's the answer? ...

Came across a conversation between my husband and his friend and I think he's cheating on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3365 days ago

3 September 2015 (F) - I need help? My husband and I have been together for 7 years. And we have been married for only 4. I fell in love with him as a person and for his sense of humor. I never had a problem trusting him until the other night....I came home from my next ...

If your partner cheated, would you want to know?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

2 September 2015 (F) - I've been on this site for a while and I'm horrified at the number if times cheaters have been told to keep quiet about the affair or the kiss 'to spare the partner's feelings'. If my partner cheated on me I would want to know. If he cheated and t...

Trust issues, privacy and should you trust your partner and can they trust you?

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2 September 2015 (F) - Going back to the 20th century, the only means to discover that your partner was cheating on you, was by fishing through his wallet to check if he had a woman’s number written on a piece of paper… Or… when you would call him at home and his moth...