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writes:If your partner is nasty and doesn't miss any chance to belittle, criticize,and hurt you, is it considered cheating if you find a few hours of solace and happiness with someone else? I feel it isn't. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (20 September 2015):
 Why don't you just leave the nasty partner, what's holding you back??
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 September 2015):
 If children are involved it can sometimes be harder to leave, I grant you that, however, cheating is cheating, no matter how much you decide to redefine the word.
And if you do decide to justify cheating by redefining 'cheating" that doesn't mean other people, such as your mean and nasty partner, or friends or family, or even people on this site, have to accept your redefinition.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2015): I am OP. The choice of leaving is easier said than done.Thanks for all your views.But I still think the definition of cheating should be revised.
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (19 September 2015):
 Why cheat?- leave the arse hole and find a lifetime of solace and happiness with that some one else. UNLESS of course that someone else has a partner.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (19 September 2015):
Having sex with someone else without your spouses approval or a specific agreement in place is cheating. Period.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (18 September 2015):
yes, it is still cheating. If your partner is all you claim them to be, then do yourself a favour and remove yourself from that relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2015): If you had a close friend whos partner was nasty, criticised and belittled him... wouldn't you recommend that he leave her to find full time happiness and not just a few hours of solace!?
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