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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How do I regain my dignity back after lashing out at my cheating ex and friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1757 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I was on before about finding out about my ex and my friend having an affair. For months I acted normal and said nothing as I had no real proof - just a gut feeling. I was going to just cut them out of my life and move on - until I discover...

How do I get over him cheating? And to add to my woes he got into a better university than me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - So its been 6 months since my ex cheated on me at a party and I found out by looking at his phone he didnt regret when I said I wanted to talk about it he left and I never saw him other than at school. I went to the same school he did because ...

How do I cope with all this pain? I don't know how to cope with this betrayal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently -...

Husband on website talking about strap on sex, blood in his underwear! Am I just deluding myself into thinking he is not cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - So a while ago i found out my husband was using the adult friend finder website. He addamantly denies meeting anyone he was just talking online... i am pregnant with our second child at the moment and since my mothers passing 2 years ago i have no ...

Were you successful in forgetting the person you had an emotional affair with? How long did it take you and what did you have to do to get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3153 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - Were you successful in forgetting the person you had an emotional affair with? How long did it take you and what did you have to do to get over it? (esp. for those who are unsure of their feelings towards their spouse/partners to begin with). ...

Snooping and led to Betrayal by my husband and alledgedly double life

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

23 July 2015 (F) - My life suddenly just collapsed in front of me. I just found out the man i married 5mths ago has another family in the UK. What should i do. I feel like dying. I met my husband through a mutual friend last yr. He told me about his baby mama who he c...

I think I'm more into women than men but how do I tell my b/f of 10 years this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I am a 29 year old woman I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years we have two kids. Well I have always had this attraction to other women an as hard as I try to make myself feel happy with my boyfriend I am not. I don't want to leave because he ...

He says it's not him. Yet the swinger's site show he's a member. What can I do? I don't want to lose our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - hey everyone, I really need some advice! Me and my partner have been together for 5.5 years, we were childhood sweethearts and got together at 16! Our relationship has always been good, we are both very laid back and therefore we don't t...

I feel he's not the man I thought he was. Should I still travel to meet up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - So I have been talking to a guy I met on a date site for 3 years now. We live over 2000 miles apart. We always tried to make plans to finally see one another in person but they never came through for one reason or another. He skyped with me once and ...

Why can't I just do what any normal person would do and throw him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - My partner of 5 year, we've been seeing each other for 8 years and living together for 5 starting chatting with a girl on Twitter I. February. He's 58 and she's 27. I found out by accident in March and it had already got very deep between them. I ...

Is this rebound sex for an ex-lover or something else? I want to stop seeing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - SO I have this situation that is a little bit odd, not wanting to be judged, just trying to understand from other people's points of view: SO the back story goes something like this: Six years ago I had a sexual relationship with this guy while my...

I do want him back. We can't seem to break free of each other. What can I do now that it's become a friends with benefits situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm in love with my ex. We talk several times a week, hook up regularly and have done for more than a year- basically since we broke up. He's cold and distant and at times when we meet up I feel unwanted and like i've become a "friends...

I don't want to cheat on my husband but don't know how long I can go being unsatisfied

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - So basically for the past 2 weeks or so I've been extremely horny. Like to the point that I think I might cheat on my husband if given the opportunity. I also gave myself my first orgasm ever last night. I am not being satisfied by my husband at the ...

He flirts a lot and he has a Gf. We've been texting. How can I make things less awkward if we do sleep together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - There's a new guy that started at my work he's 32 bearing in mind I'm 20 but I don't think the age matters because we're basically like the same people. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend and he have such good flirty banter and I'm star...

Why am I still so angry about his relationship? It feels like he won. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Several years ago I fell for a good friend I'd had my whole life, but who was living in another country. We began an LDR that lasted 8 months. It ended when he struggled to support me emotionally, as I had some mental health problems at the time...

This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...

Is it so difficult for a husband to give oral sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2908 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Hello members, Im an Indian married for 14 years.. everything is perfect.. but my husband has never gone down on me. Ive asked him a million times.. done everything to get him for it. Im very beautiful and good at almost everything.. husband ...

Me and my boyfriend both had a drunken kiss with other people. However, now he is ignoring me completely. How do I deal with his double standards?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. My boyfriend, a few months ago, made out with a girl for like a minute, and he told me about it and regretted it so much, and I ended up forgiving him. A couple weeks ago, I made out with a guy, ...

My husband is convinced I have cheated on him, but I have been nothing but faithful.. should I stay or should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

14 July 2015 (F) - Help! My husband thinks I have cheated on him. We have been married 9 years and sex was great at first until he started accusing me of cheating because my vagina was too loose, it didn't feel the same.ilove him and have been faithful too him the ...

How can I build up the strength to NOT go back to him? His behaviour has been inconsistent and confusing

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - I need some help finding out how to move on from a terrible, emotionally abusive relationship which has destroyed me. I have been involved with a guy for around eight months. When we first got together, he told me he was kind of involved with so...

How can I continue to hurt the most important person in my life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

11 July 2015 (M) - Hey all. I'm 23 years old, and I've been sabotaging my life and I want to make it stop. My current ex girlfriend is the love of my life and of that I am absolutely certain. In every aspect of life she is perfect for me. Attraction, mental, fina...

Girl I've been seeing for 9 months is on a holiday with girlfriends. What can I do to keep my mind off her ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

10 July 2015 (M) - Hi everyone, I have a quick question. The girl I've been seeing for about 9 months has gone on holiday today with 3 other single friends (a few of them are meeting people too) but what I want to know is how I can not be wondering what she's ...

Is going with his best friend bad? Have I put up with too much cheating by my BF?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

6 July 2015 (F) - so, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. But over that time, I will put in order...he has: Kissed a girl Had sexual contact with a girl kissed a girl slept with a girl sent nudes to a girl kissed a girl kissed a girl sent fl...

His flirting with girls is driving me to distraction. What can I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

6 July 2015 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend is a very flirty/charming and talkative person, thus is how we got together two years ago. However he still does it, he still flirts with girls, winking at them in person and via message. He somehow feels li...

I know that our relationship can work. How do I confront him about the naked sexual photos on his phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

6 July 2015 (F) - Basically, I've found pictures of a girl on my boyfriends phone. The pictures were sexual, it makes me feel sick. We've been through this sort of problem before. Last time, I found messages and one picture. I told my self I would never let anyone...

Is it time for me to leave this marriage? He frequently accuses me of cheating.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3417 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - I came to visit my daughter in another state for 4 days. My husband is sending me text messages saying that I'm out here messing around and he is done with me, all because he called my phone, and I didn't answer. He called my daughter and she...

Is it fair to keep some things in your past to yourself and not share them with your partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

5 July 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Do you think its fair to keep some things in your past from to yourself and not share them with your partner? I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we are already talking long term. We have a really g...

My boyfriend has been texting a girl asking her to be his mistress. She refused him. What should I do about my BF?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

4 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend admitted to me that he asked this girl best friend if she would have sex with him and she said that she would. However, she says she respects our relationship so she won't sleep with him. Yet he keeps texting her that she's irresi...

I was in a taxi being taken home, drunk, by a work colleague. He kissed me. I never asked to be kissed. Is that cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3419 days ago

4 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I apologise for the length of this but I think the question needs a bit of background. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now, and for the first 18 months there were big questions over his fidelity. I found naked pictures...

Should I tell a girl I've never met that her boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

4 July 2015 (F) - Should I tell a girl I've never even met that her boyfriend of one year (living together) has been cheating on her constantly? My boyfriend works with the guy, and he brags/shows photos and shows no remorse. Usually I wouldn't meddle but ...

Cheating online boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

1 July 2015 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site in another state in July 2012 who lived on the other side of the country. Well After September and talking everyday on the phone we said we'd be exclusive and 'date'. We chatted and talked everyday on the phone, sent ...