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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Been dating for 4 years but an old flame has returned, and so have the feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I've got a serious relationship problem I really need some help with! I have been with my boyfriend for four years. He's caring, kind, affectionate and I really do love him. However, our relationship lacks passion and we have little s...

How to deal with breakups when you suffer from anxiety

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for several years. We love each other very much but probably aren't the best match for each other. I would like to consider breaking up, but I have anxiety and it makes everything difficult 10x harder. I'm scared of ...

Should I lie and say the baby is his?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Ive made a mess but now ive got to grow up and sort it out. Me and my 'ex'boyfriend had a break , we didnt say what each other can or cant do and if we were going to get back together. I had a feeling he was seeing someone else but just left him to ...

I’m completely confused about my feelings for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Hello.... i am in the midst of a total dilemma romantically which is being worsened by the fact that i have so little trust in my own feelings and judgement. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He is very kind and lovely, treats me well, is ...

He broke up with my but regrets it 1.5 years later. I still love him, but what is the right thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - My ex and I are high school sweethearts and each other’s first love. We had been together for a decade and the last 4 years were long distance. I thought he was the guy I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with;unfortunately he ...

I know I should divorce him but I have no energy to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Hi, i feel very extremely frustrated with my marriage at the moment. We had 30 years together, many of them filled with tragic events and heartbreaking moments. I did have many years of counselling and friends help. But less and less understati...

Should I keep in touch and message him from time to time? Or leave it to him? And how long are we on hold for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - i met someone in february at a friends party and we hit it off immediately, only he suffers from mental health issues because of a past abusive relationship anyway recently my mum had a go at him through Facebook for going to see his friend instead ...

Boyfriend ignores me for computer games, should I be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I feel like this is a bit of a strange question and I'm not sure if I am allowed to feel this way or not. Hopefully you can shed some light for me. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and recently moved in together 3 years ago. I fe...

Do you think it's wise trying again with his family and friends against us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend amicably agreed to break up around a year ago and let fate decide where we'd end up. I was travelling, he was studying and it just wasn't our time. Even though we decided this together, he became more hurt about our breakup as ...

Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance? I had been with my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I recently decided to end our relationship because of his drinking habit. I wasn't happy about his drinking early on but I t...

Is serial grumpiness a warning sign or just a stress reliever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - This is probably going to be a long one. Past: Was with my teenage sweetheart. Dated at 15, engaged at 20, moved abroad for originally 2 years...he failed at his exams and so i said i'd stay 1 more year since he had to study alot and he was ok wi...

Does he love me? Or not? Is he worth the wait or is he spouting empty words? Must I risk it all and take a chance with him? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - I am hoping to get perspective on an issue more to reflect on it and process it before deciding what to do. This is the situation: My first love and i were together for a year and a half before a very silly solit. He thought he wasn't ready as ...

I want to break things off with him before he breaks my heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - I have a feeling that my boyfriend is having second thoughts about us and I want to break off the relationship before he can break my heart. We were just chatting on WhatsApp on Saturday and I guess everything was OK. The following day when I check ...

Why does it seem like my boyfriend is stringing along his ex ?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is 31 his ex is 21 and I’m 23 , my current boyfriend of two months left a girl he was dating in February to be with me. He told me he complained to her about standing up to her family and she never did it and how her family didn’t even ...

He wants to get married and I just feel he isn't the right one. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a little over a year. He is a good guy, makes me coffee in the morning, opens the door for me ect. I believe he wouldn't ever cheat on me. He helps out around the house a little. He even moved to another state with ...

I only hear from him when he is on leave ... I don't want to be his booty call.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - to start me and my ex were together for years he joined the army we were together for 2 year of the 3 year enlistment he has, and once he went on deployment, 1 month before he got back he ended it and said it was because he didn't want me waiting ...

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mi...

How can I change my life after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - I have broken up with my partner of 6 years. It turns out we both want different things in the end. I've broken up with her so many times that the grieving and then getting back together is just exhausting. It feels like there's no end. I'm pretty ...

My boyfriend says he wants to get back together eventually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Background story: My boyfriend and I broke up in what initially was in good terms last month. We were together for 7 years, we were fighting too much and became so busy with our own lives that maybe we drifted away. We figured maybe we needed time ...

Does one mistake break you forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Does one mistake make you broken forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it? My first bf and I were not a good match. Or we were for a codependant relationship. Bit I didn't know that then. Everything was a...

No sex since getting back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while now. On several occasions we broke up for about a week or two at a time. The last time we broke up it seemed we were really over with. A chick messaged me to tell me that whenever we break up they talk, that she ...

My ex is hanging around me and my new boyfriend and its causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2422 days ago

11 May 2018 (F) - Hello there! I wanted to ask advice about the current situation I'm in. A couple of months ago, I broke up with my ex, whom I'll refer to as M. We had gone out for a while. but during the relationship, M didn't spend any time with me, always chose ...

Why does being a mistress feel worse than being alone?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - I 've been seeing a man who lives with his common law wife and their toddler twin boys. I believed he will leave his live in Significant other as he promised and it would turn into something more . Well it seems like he was in strictly for sex.He n...

How I can become a better partner in the future and avoid temptation to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I just broke up with my boyfriend because I cheated on him and had a one night stand with a guy friend. Long story short, my boyfriend was a rebound and he knew it. Before my boyfriend, my ex cheated on me and it really broke my ...

I miss my ex girlfriend terribly. How do I cope with these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

10 May 2018 (M) - Hello Everyone, I come across this site as I'm looking for advice. I'm now a 38 year old guy. When I was about 23 I met a girl and we just clicked straight away. We fell in love. We got engaged when we were both about 28. Planned to m...

My boyfriend and his ex are "best friends" and keep saying that they love each other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriends ex is starting to make me have uneasy. Feelings. They were only married two years and had no children together. She did bring a two year old little girl into the marriage. They fought all the time and she wanted out and filed for ...

He had panic attacks, couldn’t eat and lost weight when I tried to end our relationship! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

10 May 2018 (F) - I have been seeing this man for 2 years, met him online and it is a long distance relationship as we don’t see each other regularly, only twice a month which was ok with me....Anyway he started talking about having a future together... to move away ...

Why does my ex treat me this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2425 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - My ex treated me very badly and we split in new year. Anyway I got Radom texts from him saying he loved me and missed me and then last night I kept getting "accidental" texts from him which was clearly for someone eles so I texted and said you text ...

He denied using social media and then won’t show me his secret account!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2424 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - I will get straight to the point! I have never ever used social media like Facebook etc., It has never ever appealed to me that’s all. When I met my husband 7 years ago he did not ever use social media and told me he didn’t like those kind o...

She wouldn’t make this small sacrifice for me, so I’ve cut contact! I know she’ll be back though!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

9 May 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been with my partner for almost 6 years now. We have honestly been through the thickest and thinnest of situations. Throughout our relationship, we started to drift personalities and so we had excessive, mentally exhau...

Will my boyfriend come back to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

8 May 2018 (F) - So my boyfriend well ex dumped me around two weeks ago out of the blue and of course i broke the no contact rule and texted him like five days after but it's been a week since we last communicated, But he left due to stress and his life being a mess ...

I push people away because I'm scared that they will leave me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

7 May 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this really sweet guy for a little over two weeks and things are going well. I am happy but I’m scared that this happiness will only be temporary. I do not fall for people easily and I have a tendency to push...

He love-bombed me but now has cut ties! Should I hold out hope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

7 May 2018 (F) - I have recently started seeing a guy, who suffers with depression, which ive supported as much as i can. Our relationship has been moving very quickly and he recently dropped the love bomb, involved me deeply with his friends and family but He has ...

Is having a child something that you can end up thinking wow this is the best thing I have ever done or do you stick with your gut feeling?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

5 May 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years and are just in the process of buying a house. She is wanting to have children in the next 2 years. The problem is I have never really been interested in having a child. I have a good job which I ...

I love her and really don't feel like breaking up. How can I handle this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

5 May 2018 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a girl for more than a year now. At first it was all going really well but then in last few months we have not stopped fighting. This is frustrating and it's taking A toll on this relationship. She has this habit of over ...

I'm tired of my ex's manipulative behavior

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2429 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - What should I do? I was in a long term relationship and got dumped the other month, I got lots of abusive texts saying disgusting things about me and then the next I was getting texts saying miss you and love you, I replied and got ignored for days ...

If he still plans to move then what is his intentions with reaching out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - My ex and I broke up a few months back due to him accepting a job offer in a different state. He hasn’t moved yet but we had decided to break it off at that time because there’s no point in prolonging the heartbreak. He reached out a week after the ...

How do I deal with pregnancy envy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - How do people deal with pregnancy envy?Im a single women and my last serious relationship ended last year. During my relationship with my ex we talked about children and he always said he felt we weren’t ready but he did want to try within t...

Any advice on dealing with my ex’s odd texts? It’s messing me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2432 days ago

4 May 2018 (F) - Was dumped by my boyfriend end of jan. I kept getting texts of him and then they started dwindling , the longest with no text was nearly 2 weeks and he said he loved me and no more taking sleepers with prefabs anyway as he felt horrid. Anyway fast ...

I don't want to throw 5 years down the pan but I don't know what else to do. Can you offer any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2422 days ago

3 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm facing a bit of a crossroads in my life and I'm hoping you guys can help me as you've helped me so many times before. I've been with my BF for 5 and a half years. On our 5 year anniversary he proposed and I said yes. We've talked abo...